Xavier Robinson
- Date posted
- 6y
pureolifepureolife
- Date posted
- 5y
You will never figure out your sexuality based on a feeling in hour stomach. I hope you can recognize that this is clearly a compulsion. Testing the body for responses to stimuli in this way doesn’t work because your anxiety and OCD mess with the results. Focus on accepting the stomach feeling and letting it pass. Don’t analyze it, try to suppress it, or look to it as a sign. It’s just a weird and uncomfortable feeling you got. And you can’t really know exactly what it meant.
Xavier RobinsonXavier Robinson
- Date posted
- 5y
So im basically just trying to find a answer to a pointless question because their is no answer?
CheeksCheeks
- Date posted
- 6y
Try your best not to check feelings. It only makes it worse. :(
Xavier RobinsonXavier Robinson
- Date posted
- 5y
So am i in denial
pureolifepureolife
- Date posted
- 5y
Basically you’re using a flawed test to solve a flawed question. Checking is just another compulsion that will never give you the answer you want (emotions weren’t meant to be scrutinized in this way and they perform differently under direct observation like this) so repeating it again and again is only hurting and confusing you further. Let the thoughts and feelings happen. Accept that they’re there, acknowledge them, and move on. Don’t perform mental compulsions to try to “figure it all out.”
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- Date posted
- 13w
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- Date posted
- 11w
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- Date posted
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