Please respond I need advice ): 🙏

My bf and I of one month spend a lot of time together. but recently I feel relieved when he’s gone and prefer to be alone. The love I show him feels forced. I hate feeling this I don’t want to. He reassures me that it’s just OCD and I do love him and then I feel better and in love but then it happens again. I’m scared deep down I am losing feelings but am in denial. He’s such a great guy I don’t wanna feel this. But I feel like I want to push him away or do my own thing a lot of times and I HATE IT!! I’m so sad and frustrated. Can OCD cause this? Or should I break it off ):

Relationship OCD

Username: we will be ok 🍉we will be ok 🍉

Date posted: 45w ago

The feeling comes and goes. I feel obsessed and so in love then I feel annoyed and like I want space. WTF😭💔 this is so new. Never had such intense feelings and thoughts my head hurts so much. I wonder if this is normal for ocd

Username: UH52UH52

Date posted: 45w ago

Totally understand, like first off it’s really important to give ourselves enough space to think clearly what’s really going on, like it seems mostly like an blown up irrational fear of OCD that’s making the issue so difficult to deal with, and that’s totally fine, that’s exactly what OCD does. It’s also important to analyze is their any rational logic to the feeling, feelings are obviously not facts, but if there is something that’s causing that feelings in reality, it would be great to address that at first place instead of making it even more worse by avoiding them!!

Username: ocdsufferer101ocdsufferer101

Date posted: 45w ago

I think we all need to realise that sometimes the intense amount of obsession and love we have at the start of a relationship will eventually go, then come back, then go again and so on. Love isn’t always a feeling, sometimes it’s just choosing your partner everyday. Don’t stress if you can’t find that feeling, it’s absolutely normal in relationships for this to happen (I learnt the hard way also😁)

Username: ocdsufferer101ocdsufferer101

Date posted: 45w ago

@ocdsufferer101 Just read your post again and came across the fact you’ve been together one month, usually this is the most intense part of happiness in the relationship so I’m not too sure what’s happening to you £

Username: Anonymous

Date posted: 3y ago

i'm scared I don't have OCD, I used to be 50/50 about it but now I just keep doubting I do. The reason i'm scared is because I can't feel anything for my girlfriend anymore, sometimes I do and want to love up on her but other times I just feel unnatracted to her and don't feel anything for her. This is taking a tole on the both of us, she cries alot because she knows what i'm going through but it's also hurting her. I also sometimes (not very often) think about breaking up with her or being with someone else and it scares me because I want to love her and only her and only be with her. I'm afraid I should break up with her but I really don't want to. Whenever she compliments me I get uncomfortable, sometimes whenever she says I love you I hesitate to say it because I feel kind of guilty and I can't really feel anything. She picks up on all of these things which makes it even harder to really hide. i know I shouldn't hide it but she's the crying type and I upset her too much already with all of this. Someone please tell me they can relate or that it's OCD, can someone please help me?

Username: jeremys

Date posted: 32w ago

Stay or go?

Over the past week I’ve recently started having doubts about my relationship with my boyfriend. I have logistical concerns that we were working on but something kept telling me it might be falling out of love. Because I truly do care for him. But feel that if I’m unsure whether or not we’re meant to be together. If anyone has dealt with ROCD and has any advice please let me know. In the past I’ve had OCD episodes with different types so I know what it’s like to some extent. Over the past week I’ve been very distressed over this all and that led me to ending things with him last night but he’s the one who told me it could be OCD, if it is I want to work on it with him but if it’s not then, it’s not unfortunately. Back story We’ve been talking for the past 7 months and dating for 3. When I met him it was a few months after I had a relationship end very abruptly and traumatically but I don’t see him as a rebound Thank you in advance

Relationship OCD

Username: Cloudbunny19

Date posted: 31w ago

Falling out of love or OCD?

Can someone please help me. The other day out of no where my brain is trying to convince me that I no longer love my boyfriend which is scaring me and terrifying because I’ve been with him for almost 4 years and we live together and planned our future together but now my brain is now nit picking everything thing he does, trying to convince me he has so many flaws to break up with him or noticing all the perfect things he does to love him all over again. I’m scared and so upset am I falling out of love or is just ROCD? It just won’t leave me alone I don’t want to be with anyone else but I’m scared my thoughts will fully convince me I don’t love him anymore or don’t want to be with him anymore 😞

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