- Username
- PRIV8
- Date posted
- 36w ago
Insecure about my height as a male
I dont know if this will help me, i just tried it maybe someone can give some good advice. Im 5'4" (163cm) and I used to deal with being insecure about my height. For a year i actually didnt cared, i was even told that im short but i had so much confidence that i didnt cared at all like if someone judges me because of my height, something i cant change than the problem is not with me... However for some reason im sad again about my height and i write this cause it got toa point where i see it as unhealthy for me. Like affects my confidence and how i see myself in a negative way. I know i shouldnt care about what others say but when you get it from everywhere its hard, and i know social media plays a big part in this. I just cant get over this now, it affects how i see myself. The universal view of short guys is that they are these clowns that you can have fun with, but they are not mature, they are just as i said clowns, people just have fun with them but they are weaker and basically the only good thing about them is that you can laugh with or at them. Im a funny guy too i like that, but i dont want to be viewed as a clown. Like people dont take me serious. I even got it once from a girl that its "cute" that im smaller. When i got it i didnt cared cause i was in that season but now it makes me feel shame. I dont have problems with girls who are tall and want a guy as tall or taller than them, like okay thats normal but then you hear these things that short girls are ment for tall guys and then Im like "then who should o get? None? Cause im just a clown? Like even short girls think that im weak, even that im taller than them but im not 6 foot..." It really makes me feel shame about myself but i shouldnt, its something i cannot change, but i still keep thinking people see me as a weak person and im only just a clown.