- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Doesnt judge ! Finally feel comfortable!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Yay!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Ridiculous sense of humor that helps OCD themes not feel so heavy.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
A sense of humor when treating OCD is awesome!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
She’s always willing to adapt our meeting to what I need most in the moment, whether it’s exposure therapy, or just to talk with someone. :)
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Love it.
- Date posted
- 50w
Her kindness 🤍
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Thanks for sharing!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Very honest.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Honestly is important!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Her ability to make me feel like I can get through tough challenges 🤍
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
YES!
- Date posted
- 50w
Rosa is a fantastic counselor - one of the best I’ve ever had. Every time I work with her I feel heard and helped. She meets me where I am at and validates how I’m feeling, giving me tools to move forward.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Thank you for sharing these kind words!
- Date posted
- 50w
Determined!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Love it!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
I feel really heard and understood. I don’t feel judged at all!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Amazing to hear!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Tara is just amazing! She has a way of making me feel more human and have self-compassion.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Love it! Self-compassion is extremely important!!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
I love Tammy Fagan’s sense of humor. Exposures can be stressful, but she manages to keep it light and even makes me laugh. I’m very thankful for her!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Thank you for sharing!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Her ability to synthesize my over analytical verbosity into a condensed, streamlined summary of what is really happening at the core of my thoughts. Also her technique of having me “sit with a thought” for as long as it takes to go from an anxiety level of 10 down to 1
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
What is the technique used. If I may ask.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
"Sitting with the thought" is a huge part of ERP therapy! This is awesome!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Doesn’t judge and keeps me motivated 🙂
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Incredible!
- Date posted
- 50w
Very patient and reels me back in calmly
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Patience is important!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Where do I begin??? Gary Vandalfsen has been the most incredible guide, cheerleader, accountability-holder, encourager, helper, supporter, listener, and I’ve probably forgotten a few!! I fully believe that the Lord hand-picked him to be my guide through this process that’s been easily the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I truly owe my life, regained sense of self, ability to not only function and survive but start to thrive again, be present in conversations and relationships again, and focus on what I’m passionate about again all thanks to him. Can’t express my thanks for him enough!!! 🥹🥹
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
What kind words!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Chris is great! We can joke around and also have very serious discussions. I think finding some humor in the things I struggle with the most can be helpful. I feel like he really cares about my progress and is very understanding!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Awesome!!
- Date posted
- 50w
Her constant support and belief in me.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Love this!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
She’s very wise and always prepared for any circumstance.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Amazing.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Kind, intelligent, warm, determined, so funny! realistic, and very very encouraging
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
"Warm" is a lovely word - thanks for sharing!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
My favorite thing is my therapist listens to me and provides me the courage I need
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Terrific!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
She’s kind, always listens, and I never feel judged. She also pushes me to do the hard things!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
"pushes me to do the hard things" - thanks for sharing this piece of encouragement!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
How she holds me accountable. Always keeps it real!!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Yes!!!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
She motivates you to keep on going.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Love it!
- Date posted
- 50w
Her sense of humor!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Sense of humor + ERP therapy is awesome!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Lauren Lake is a miracle worker! She has helped fix my brain. She is honest, direct, warm, kind, and has a genuine desire to see you improve. I’m grateful every day to her!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Thanks for sharing these kind words!!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Amara is patient but pushes me. We spent a lot of sessions focusing on how to empower me as a young woman who felt disempowered by her struggles with mental illness.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Feeling empowered is HUGE! Love this.
- Date posted
- 50w
Tal is great to work with! He is kind, determined, non-judgmental and is very helpful.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Yay!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
I could tell him anything and his attitude was always oh that’s not weird. His sick ability to find more distressing erp exercises. Because of his help I am in remission.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
YES!
- Date posted
- 50w
Thelma is my favorite cheerleader. She reminds me of what I have accomplished when I do an exposure or get through something hard. She has a great sense of humor, and we laugh and joke all the time, which makes sessions fun. I’ve laughed and cried and been mad and been happy in sessions with her, and every time it’s helpful. Even saying all of this, she would probably tell me that I am doing it all myself and she’s guiding me. Love her so much ❤️
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
All the emotions! :) thanks for sharing these kind words!
- Date posted
- 50w
I don’t feel judged and I feel able to open up more, which scares me because I’m not really used to that, but she provides a safe space for me to feel like I can talk about things I haven’t been able to before. I feel more seen and heard since being at NOCD than I have ever been before, and I feel like I’m actually developing self trust. It’s nice to have a therapist that trusts me with my emotions too, it makes the emotions feel more safe to experience.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Absolutely love this!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
MS Tamara is wonderful, finally feel like I was being heard not just listened to and opened my eyes and mind to realization that there is hope on the other side of all the work we're putting in.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
HOPE is vital - thanks for this encouragement!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Great Listener
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Love this!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
I full believe Jesus himself handpicked my therapist for me. She has changed my life. I’m forever grateful.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Does not judge me at my worst and lovingly guides me through hard times while celebrating me at my best!!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
she messages me back so quickly!
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Great to hear!!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
He has a gentle spirit about him. He just put me at ease from the first session. He believed in my ability to get better when I didn't think I could.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Love it!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Her sense of humor 😅 and her relatability.
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
A good sense of humor can be key!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Talking about Mason Allread btw
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
They always believed in me and nonjudgmental
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 50w
Incredible to hear.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
She’s kind and funny!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
My nocd therapist was such a positive force and influence in my life that I went to school to become a therapist.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Her vision-she knew I could conquer my OCD from day 1, and she motivated me until I believed in the work myself. I can’t imagine a better therapist.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
I was never given reassurance…. I was taught to be fearless.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
she’s a good listener!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Their patients
- Date posted
- 50w
Mind/Brain… the ability to use different schools of thought, beliefs, values, methods and make it relevant to my experiences and therapeutic process
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
He meets me where I am at for treatment and let's me be myself during sessions!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
She is direct!
- Date posted
- 50w
She is very knowledgeable and understanding. It is very easy to tell that she loves what she does. She is able to figure out the best way to explain the things that I need to know so I can understand them. Her approach is very relatable. She understands what I am trying to tell her, not everyone does
- Date posted
- 50w
She is so sweet and understanding and genuine. A truly good person!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Paria is amazing! She challenges me and makes me feel comfortable. I don’t feel like she is judging my crazy intrusive thoughts. Love meeting with her every week 😊
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Her vast knowledge, continuous support, and words of encouragement ♥️
- Date posted
- 50w
Understanding and calm
- Date posted
- 50w
Angela Dickerson is so patient with me!
- Date posted
- 50w
Takes my concerns seriously.
- Date posted
- 50w
She stops me from over explaining my obsessions. It irritated tf out of me at first, but then I slowly realized she does this to keep me from ruminating which makes OCD worse. I had been doing this for years without realizing it and it took those subtle moments of her basically telling me to “stfu” to not figure out the obsession but allowing it to just sit there (my therapist has never told me to stfu btw lol) that’s just how I perceive it, and it’s helping
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
She’s good at listening and has a very calm presence
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Very committed to helping me!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
She is very experienced and has been doing this a long time. She actively messages me to follow up and make sure I’m doing okay.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
The favorite thing about my therapist is that he has a very calm and grounding presence.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
My favorite thing about my NOCD therapist is that she makes me feel seen & understood!
- Date posted
- 50w
Even when I fall short of my expectations, she’s there to encourage me and remind me how far I’ve come!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Sense of humor, confidence in me and positivity even on my hardest day! I’m so thankful for her
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
She is genuine and shares her relevant experiences. She was flexible to meet me where I was emotionally.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
always reminds me to be compassionate to myself.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Shout out to Caroyln Meiman!! She is a truly talented therapist. I’ve been in CBT therapy for 6/7 years and it has not come close to the progress I’ve made in the last 5 months. I asked her once when we were going to start exposures and she said, “we’re doing them right now” it didn’t hit me until a few weeks later what she meant. She is kind and hilarious. I thought treatment was going to go a certain way- but it was nothing like I expected. I am very fortunate to have been paired with a skilled therapist. Wouldn’t trade with anyone ever.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Humor
- Date posted
- 50w
I don't have a NOCD therapist. My favorite thing about my therapist is that she's patient. She doesn't act like she wants me to "hurry up and get better" like so many professionals and other people have done and still do, and she doesn't blame me for not getting better, nor does she assume I'm being stubborn or willful.
- Date posted
- 50w
I love that she is funny, lighthearted and joyful even while being so respectful of the serious topics we touch on
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
Lourdes is the best therapist I could think of because she helped me to gain my life back and she always motivates me to do hard things while giving me the feeling that she is with me and supports me… I owe her so much ❤️
- Date posted
- 50w
She’s incredibly friendly, and makes me feel comfortable working on allowing myself to be a more vulnerable in sessions knowing she supports me from a genuinely caring place. She isn’t pushy and doesn’t follow a 1-size-fits all template, and instead works to meet me where I’m at. And more things too! :)
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 50w
How she is kind and compassionate and patient.
- Date posted
- 50w
laughs at my dark jokes
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 49w
Angela is incredibly nonjudgmental and supportive. She pushes me when I need pushes and I feel like she’s genuinely rooting for my success
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 49w
She doesn’t judge my wild obsessions ❤️
- Date posted
- 49w
Her sharing the excitement of those “little wins” of progression
- Date posted
- 49w
@ItsmeMarioB That is so important. My therapist does this for me too! Quite empowering
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 49w
My therapist is so kind and never judge me, always understands me, she helped me get through some hardest times in my life! And I’m so happy to have her as a part of my life.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 49w
He is helping me to accept living with “never having an answer to that question!” Which I’m slowly getting the hang of. And realizing that when I can embrace uncertainty and not try to control things with compulsions or avoidance, sometimes life can be exciting. It unfolds in ways I didn’t expect or plan for. Hard to do for sure, but becoming more possible for me. Thank you!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 49w
@Clare ity And he’s kind, smart, accepting and helpful!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 48w
She actually REALLY listens to me
Related posts
- Date posted
- 20w
i am starting NOCD therapy on monday and was just curious on others’ experiences! what happens in your sessions, generally speaking? how do you feel during and after? i’m excited but also nervous to start. i’ve been in talk therapy for years with minimal improvement with my ocd, so im hopeful to start feeling better.
- Students with OCD
- Young adults with OCD
- Relationship OCD
- "Pure" OCD
- Harm OCD
- Contamination OCD
- LGBTQ+ with OCD
- User type
- Therapist
- Date posted
- 18w
Hi everyone! My name is Tara, I’m a therapist here at NOCD. Before becoming a therapist, I worked various jobs in arts, textiles, prop styling, I worked in restaurants... I basically did what I could do with an undergrad in art living in Brooklyn, with a secret hope that I might someday pursue a career in mental health. Fun fact, I held onto that hope for 10 whole years before I decided to take a risk and apply to grad school! I wanted to become a therapist because I just knew that this was a field where my mind could work at its best and do the most good. Anyone else here with ADHD may understand. I simply cannot retain long term focus on something if I don’t absolutely love it, and I absolutely love this work. Having a job where my sole purpose is to connect with others and help them tap into their inner strength is an actual dream come true. I specifically love working with Exposure and Response Prevention and treating OCD, since the whole point of ERP is to show you you’re braver than you think you are. And it works so, so well. If you have a fear, and you think you “can’t” approach it, know that you most likely can. It might take some time to prove that to yourself, but with time and a steady dose of discomfort, you’ll get there. I’m sure that “discomfort” part didn’t sound appealing but let me ask you this - does OCD make you feel uncomfortable? Why not put some of that discomfort to work, in your favor? If you’re struggling with OCD, or you think you might be, know that you probably already have what it takes to thrive in ERP. You’re here. You recognized that you were struggling, you decided to find help, you downloaded the app, and you started reading through posts. I’m sure somewhere along the line, you felt at least a little uncomfortable, and you decided to take the next step anyway. That’s ERP in a nutshell :) Please ask me anything about OCD, your current symptoms or ERP. I’ll be responding over the next 2 days to questions.
Be a part of the largest OCD Community
Share your thoughts so the Community can respond