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- 19w
Does anyone else have thoughts like these?
Judgy thoughts. I constantly have thoughts criticizing my boyfriend. Some of these are based on insecurities like our height difference, him being shorter than me. It just feels like I always have these negative thoughts and feelings and I always feel like I need to tell my boyfriend. I **know** theyāre hurtful but I feel like Iām being dishonest or something if I donāt say something. Why do I constantly want to point out his shortness or if he has a smell that may not be too pleasant (completely human, nothing foul). Why canāt I ever keep it to myself. I used to be able to because I think the normal thing is to notice and move on. I donāt understand why I just canāt or why these thoughts are so persistent. Like Iām constant looking for a flaw. Itās so draining and I canāt imagine how exhausting it is for him apart from confusing and hurtful :( I love him
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