Mars

Date posted: 4y

People on tik Tok rly saying OCD is a blessing for some people ??? and people are like “I have ocd and this joke doesn’t offend me” or “you’re all making a big deal out of nothing” like people don’t understand ocd in the slightest I’m so tired. If they heard ocd for some is the fear of being a pedophile, or stabbing ppl with knives, or any taboo subject at all maybe they’d think differently. But knowing these types of people if they actually heard what ocd really entails they’d probably be judgmental. Because people are jerks.

kelsdav

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 4y

I was just saying how much “how OCD are you” quizzes bother me. Yes symmetry and order is a type but it doesn’t define OCD and those quizzes I feel invalidate the reality of living with OCD

cwllms

Date posted: 4y

omg i get ads on games that are genuine games about ‘ocd’ when it’s really just slotting things into gaps and im like if my issues could be solved like that i’d be the happiest girl alive

sillybilly

Date posted: 4y

People are ignorant

Mars

Date posted: 4y

Yeah :( it makes me so mad! I wish I could be open about my ocd but these same people who wanna throw ocd around like nothing would probably judge me and my themes.

sillybilly

Date posted: 4y

@Mars If they judge you on your themes then that would say so much about them. They can’t claim they have ocd and shame someone who actually suffers from it??

person1

Date posted: 4y

I mean, here’s how I see it. Ocd sucks big time but on the other hand, I can also see how it has positively impacted my life. I feel blessed sometimes to have ocd because fighting this makes me stronger. It’s the challenges in life that sculpt who we are. They probably are dealing with some other kind of mental illness and think how everyone thinks: grass is greener on the other side. Hell, there are days where I want something different over ocd, but alas that is not how life works. I have met so many awesome people, and have discovered so many great things about this world because of ocd and the community we have built around helping one another.

Mars

Date posted: 4y

I mean that’s true but that’s completely different from what these people were speaking about ? this was over organizing a fridge

Ronald

Date posted: 4y

Why are you so invested in the ignorance of others. Of course they don’t understand ocd, no one who doesn’t have can understand it. Don’t obsess about ignorance, put your energy into truth.

luchalysol

Date posted: 4y

Its very likely a lot of those people don't even have ocd and just have traits that resemble ocd behaviors. Cause even contamination ocd can be very debilitating. I had to have this convo with a coworker yesterday. She is very open minded so she was surprised to learn ocd is more than just cleanlines.

Mars

Date posted: 4y

Yes this! I’ve had fears of contamination sooo many times but my house is a hoarders mess. People just don’t get it.

luchalysol

Date posted: 4y

@Mars Yes! I hate cleaning but I also hate a dirty house. And sometimes Ill be bothered when my house gets a bit dirty, but it doesn't interrupt my life.

ARTnotOCD

Date posted: 4y

This is why one thing I liked about the show Monk, was everytime someone would say he (the “obsessive compulsive detective”) had a “gift”, he’d reply, “and a curse”. Glad you have ya to vent with. We know the truth. Good vibes your way!

ARTnotOCD

Date posted: 4y

*us to vent with. (I swear autocorrect is wackier here than everywhere else. I try to leave it as exposures, but that one was the opposite of what I tried to type. Lol)

person1

Date posted: 4y

I honestly don’t think they meant it in a harmful way. They have no idea what true ocd is like, only the highly commercialized form that everyone assumes is “ocd”. I kinda want to watch it though just to see, would you mind posting the link? Or at least tell me who made the video

Mars

Date posted: 4y

https://vm.tiktok.com/JNdy8dn/ here’s the link to the video. I know it wasn’t like meant harmfully but it’s still definitely such a pet peeve of mine when people treat ocd like it’s nothing and or a joke. Just really annoys me.

person1

Date posted: 4y

@Mars I really don’t think she meant it in any harmful way, she just used ocd to describe it for a second. I mean Idk life’s too short. I say try to not let it bother you so much. Yes ocd sucks and it’s makes life hell, but at the same time you can’t let people who are unaware bother you. I completely respect your feelings and your thoughts on this, no doubt people have no idea what it’s really like. But don’t let it make you upset, most of the time people mean well.

Mars

Date posted: 4y

@person1 I totally get what you mean, I guess it just does get frustrating bc so many people can’t even actually truly be open about their ocd because people would think terribly of them. Same people probably say they’re ocd for things like this. Just gets annoying to me big time.

person1

Date posted: 4y

@Mars Gotcha, I like that we have this app to discuss things like this though. I love having actual discussion about ocd and social aspects! Thanks for sharing the video btw!

Mars

Date posted: 4y

@person1 Yeah that’s why I appreciate this app too. It’s good to be able to share things like this to people who do understand.

Evelyn4416

Date posted: 4y

I’ve seen those videos! Like they’ll show an organized pantry and the voice over says “you say OCD is a disorder, I say it’s a blessing” or something along those lines. It annoys me not gonna lie, but also I think it’s a lack of awareness of the disorder. Whenever I see one of those videos, when I look at the comments it’s actually filled with people correcting them saying how OCD is an actually serious mental illness and shouldn’t be taken lightly. I think with more and more awareness we’ll get to a place where it’ll be taken more seriously. We could say the same things when people joke about people being “psychos” or “sociopaths” it’s used as a adjective without really knowing it’s a real thing

Evelyn4416

Date posted: 4y

Plus if they say that they definitely don’t have OCD or they just have “OCS tendencies”. Before I was diagnosed with OCD, my old therapist (who for some reason could not see I have legit OCD) said I had “OCD tendencies” because I’d watching the same tv show or movie over and over again occasionally or listen to the same song over and over again sometimes if it was my current favorites. Those things didn’t distress me but for some reason it got labeled as so

luchalysol

Date posted: 4y

@Evelyn4416 I do believe there is such a thing as ocd tendencies. I do think that is what people are confusing themselves into thinking they actually do have the disorder. Not saying at a few of them have their ocd under control, but these videos seem to show people with tendencies and they confuse it for the real thing.

Northern_Dow...

Date posted: 20w

Real Event OCD is a different breed (18+)

Being exposed to taboo p*rn as young as first grade ruined my life and now ocd is making me pay for it. I have so much guilt for being a child/teen and looking at taboo stuff, and it was all fictional or anime or whatever but it was still so so gross. and I didn't realize It because I had been used to it at so young 🫠 I think what haunts me most is when I was a kid/young teen (like 12-14ish) and didn't have access to p*rn I'd imagine stuff similar to what I'd seen in the art. I can't even believe I'd imagine scenarios involving kid characters or whatever because it had been so normalized to me and I assumed it was normal since it was fiction. I'm 23 now so it's been a decade since I've done anything like that and I've never had the urge to since but still. I've NEVER been attracted to kids or had any urges or anything ever, even when I was addicted. The thought makes me want to vomit, I'd rather die than associate anything sexual with kids/minors and I think people who groom or assault kids are vile. But I still feel like the fact that I imagined stuff similar to the things I read sometimes when I was young is proof I'm a p*do. I don't think people would believe me if I said I'm not. I just feel like I don't deserve to live or that if I do, I'm living a lie. I know 'I was a kid too' but even when I was 13/14 I read/imagined stuff with characters younger than me because I thought it was normal. I'm so disgusted. I've had this theme for so long I'm starting to wonder if ocd is right. I feel too ashamed to tell my therapist.

Christy Str...

User type: Therapist

Date posted: 15w

OCD & Isolation

OCD can be an incredibly lonely experience, especially when people around you don’t understand the thoughts and fears you’re facing. But you’re not alone—others have been there too. What’s something about OCD that makes you feel isolated or alone?

HOY

Date posted: 11w

Wild

It kinda mind boggling to me how OCD can even cause stuff to happen to us physically as well. And it all feeling real. It only reminds me how flawed our bodies really are. If people were to hear of our situations they'd call us names and choose to stay ignorant. People fear what they cannot understand. Before this I could have possible have been one of them, but here I am. OCD really goes for anybody. Does not matter what ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation you are. It is a twisted disorder that likes to make others lives harder. If I were to tell myself before this that this would happen, I would'nt believe it. I was convinced I am evil, I cried for weeks. I had to sleep in my parents bedroom for a period of time cause I couldn't face the darkness alone. This application helped me greatly during this, cause I learned just as much about OCD as I did about myself. At the same time I get saddened cause I see people going through the exact same, or much worse. If any who come across this post have any questions for me, u can feel free to do so

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