Need advice! My roommate and I were both pre-med. then I changed to pre-dent and had internships and worked hard for it and now she changed to pre-dent too. I used to get so jealous because she gets like perfect As and I’m a As and Bs student and I feel like if a dental school was looking at the two of us they would pick her over me any day. I think about it a lot and it makes me feel bad because I try really hard to get as good grades but for her it comes naturally and I don’t really get it. I compare myself with her and make myself feel bad about myself all the time. Has anyone experienced a similar situation? Can anyone give me any advice?

There's enough space for two dentists in the world

My boyfriend was top 10% of his class in dental school and comes from a family of dentists. Iv seen a lot of behind the scenes when it comes to admissions on both ends (applying, being admitted, and what students do well and get selected).... I can genuinely say, grades aren’t EVERYTHING sand admissions officers are well aware of that. As long as you do your best with grades and focus on being well rounded, like volunteer opportunities, etc. you will stand out as a diverse candidate that can do well in school and in the community. That speaks more than someone who can just take tests really well. Don’t compare yourself. Focus on YOU. Focus on what makes YOU an amazing future dentist. So many of my bfs friends who were in the top 3% ended up with no jobs or specialty because they lacked in so many other vital areas.

I'm the As student and my friend was As and Bs in undergrad. She was more healthy and balanced and it has helped her in her career and life. I've realized I'm a perfectionist at times and have let it affect my mental health. Sure i got good grades but missed out on other opportunities and it's led to depression and things that hold me back. If you're working hard and learning the material don't compare yourself. Being well rounded and resilient is also very important

You guys are so right thank you so much :)

Thank you soooooo much Jade that was so helpful :) i really needed to hear that and I’m so grateful you took the time to comment