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Your mom is a TERRIBLE example of how someone competent and trained in ocd would treat you. I understand your fears, but the worst case scenario here is that someone misunderstands you, and you stop seeing them. The best case scenario is that you finally find the help you need and recover from ocd. ERP works. And your life doesn’t need to be like this. Please get help from a specialist. It will change your life. I hope this article can help: https://battlingtheocddemon.wordpress.com/2014/11/04/erp-works-so-why-wont-you-do-it/
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Thank you so much for being here with my friend. Everytime I see you, you're always ready to help someone with something they need help with strongly. I'm glad someone else has noticed this and I hope more people can. :) Now that you mention it, I can look at that article too.
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Thank you
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I’m so so sorry. No one should have to go through this or even get misunderstood for a disorder such as this one. You’re loved & we’re all here for you.
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Thank you 🙏🏻
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Hi. I'm really sorry to hear this. I'm sorry for your loss and I'm sorry that your mother isn't supporting you in the way you need her to. Any idea why she treats you that way because of this? Do you have any therapy? Have you told anyone else about your struggles? Do you have a therapist? I'm sorry I have so many questions, but I also want to say that you aren't alone and you aren't a disappointment. You are loved and we are here for you. It's not wrong for you or a compulsion to reach out for help.
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I can’t do it. The things I struggle with are horrible and no one could possible understand without twisting it and making it worse like my mom did. She just doesn’t understand that I don’t want this. I never did. I just want to live a normal life. I don’t have a therapist because I’m scared to get one plus I don’t think I can afford it. My mom also doesn’t believe I should get therapy she doesn’t want me talking to anyone about it. She just thinks ocd is cleaning and checking she doesn’t believe the other stuff so when I told her about what I was struggling with I cried and cried for her to help me and she just screamed at me and called me names so I don’t want to go to a therapist and that happen to me all over again
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@Staystrong❤ Unfortunately your mom is under stereotypical thinking when it comes to OCD and it's absolutely terrible to hear that she doesn't want to help you with this. I'm really sorry to hear that. However, you can share whatever problems you have with me. The last thing I will do is judge someone with a mental disorder that is hurting their livelihood. I want to help you. I don't want to make things worse. I definitely don't want to generalize OCD like it's as black and white as what people who don't understand what it's like think it is. Please. Express your worries here. We all struggle together and we try everyday to get better. That includes you too. I feel really bad. There has to be someone in your family that can help you get better. Siblings? Cousins? Aunts or Uncles? If not, I will try my best to help you out. Or at the very least listen to you. :(
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@BigGip09 I don’t have anyone I can go to about it. I’m so sorry I appreciate that you are willing to help me but I don’t think it’s a good idea. I truly appreciate it though. You have always been so nice
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@Staystrong❤ Oh.. well I'm here for you and you matter to me. I don't want you to go through your life dealing with this alone. Everybody needs someone to lean on. We're made to be social and we're meant to get help. I'm sorry you feel that way.. I hope things get better, u really do.
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@BigGip09 I*
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@BigGip09 Thank you so much
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I keep thinking about life and death and all that stuff and it’s making me so upset. I keep thinking about how one day im probably going to be old and on my death bed or something and my whole life will be nothing but a memory and im so scared for that day. i wont have my parents and my younger siblings wont have any of us. time feels like its moving too fast like i feel every second pass and think about how i can never get that moment back and i cant slow down time or go back or even just pause it because its always going and theres nothing i can do about it. And then i start thinking about whats after death and get even more scared because if heaven is real then what is eternity? wont i get bored of doing the same things… forever? and if its not real then what happens is it just nothing? because thats even more scary i don’t want to be nothing because that also means the people i love will be nothing and i wont be able to be with them. And if it’s not that then is it reincarnation? will i have to do this all over again? will the souls of the people i love be with me in their new forms? is the sun “God” because the planets revolve around it and the stars are all of the passed souls? what does it feel like to be a star? will i even just know i died? i have so many questions and the fact that none have an answer and i just have to wait to find out drives me insane. i try to remind myself everyone before me and everyone after me will experience death and loss at one point in their life and that I’m not alone but it doesn’t help. nothing helps. ive had “episodes” like this before when i was around 10-14 about once a year always around May-June which is the month my great grandmother died and June is my birth month which i hate because yk… time passing and aging which i assume is why i always get worse around that time. i was able to kind of ignore or turn it off the past like 3 years but this month its just too much i cant even deal with it. maybe because I’m turning 18? idk but its been bothering me so much and its all i can think about. Even when i seem fine the thoughts are always in there somewhere and some days they’re easier to ignore and others it feels impossible. I just wish I was like those people who can just turn their thoughts off if they don’t like them. My mom says she can do that if she thinks about how her mom died or something she can tell herself she doesn’t want to think about that and just… turn it off?? and thats so shocking to me because i’ve begged a god I don’t even know if I believe in to stop my thoughts and she can just turn them off herself? I don’t have another therapy appointment until next week I wish I could talk to them everyday so it could work faster but instead i’m on here. So if anyone has any advice PLEASE give it to me. I’m so tired it’s making me not enjoy anything in life because it makes me feel like theres no point in anything but I want to feel normal and I want to enjoy things. Sorry for writing so much just had to get this out there. Also i’m not trying to seek reassurance btw I just wanna know how other people coped with this or similar issues😭
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