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Try to remember that it's in your head. I know that OCD can cause strain in our personal lives but try to remember that it is not true just because your brain is thinking it. I did this a lot with my husband and I in the past. I still so occasionally however I talked to him about my feelings and what my mind was telling me. He graciously reassured me that he has no interest in anyone else. Try to keep your head up and I know things will get better for you.
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No one else i know with o d had thingy feelings
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Thank you
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I feel this. Soooooooo much. It’s so awful. It makes me doubt our relationship. It makes me doubt it. It makes me doubt myself. And all it does is lead to feelings of guilt and resentment. It’s awful :(
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Someone please give me some advice d
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I’m really struggling today
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Why do i have these thoughts
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It makes me rlly u comfortable like the things will come true
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Try to remember that every one person is different and their OCD is different. Everyone is affected differently. And as much as we hate this we just have to try our best to manage it and overcome it. Overtime it is possible. You can do this. Find something that makes you feel better or comfortable that may help alleviate your OCD about this. Mine was talking to my husband and a counselor. It helped a lot. My OCD has gotten crazy lately but we need to remind ourselves that this is just what it is. It's our OCD and the thoughts are not real. I hope things get better for you
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Your welcome:)
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for me it’s getting to the point where i don’t feel in love with my boyfriend anymore. i’m trying to keep myself from compulsing since my compulsions are all mental. it’s like the thoughts consume my mind every second of every day and i can’t catch a break. it’s like i want to be with him so bad but my brain won’t allow me. any advice?
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I’m gonna try to make this make sense, and any support or advice would be great. I have a beautiful girlfriend, who I’ve been dating off and on for a year. We were really rocky but got our shit figured out 4 months ago and have been strong since. I truly love this girl more than I’ve loved anyone. And I know based off the sheer amount of ocd that has come up on our relationship, that she means a lot to me. Me and her were in a friend group in 2022 and we never liked each other. However she had a sexual relationship with one of my old friends. Fast forward to now I haven’t talked to him in a long time and I don’t see it as an issue. However… I keep having this vivid flashback to him touching her some kinda way in 2022. I can’t remember exactly what happened or the details but it’s running through my head. I guess this is retroactive jealousy but it’s really almost hurting my feelings. I wish it would stop but I know ocd doesn’t work that way. I just wanna be happy with my girl and not upset at her past experiences
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