- Date posted
- 3y ago
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Wouldnt make sense for professionals make up soocd, because the treatment is to expose yourself to the situation and accept the possibility of the thought. That wouldn’t make a person more in denial. Also, gay people have soocd. So what would be the professionals main objective? To turn in the closet straight people into gay people and in the closet gay people into straight people ? Sounds like a weird and pointless treatment. Why would real pedophiles be trained to not be around children by the same professionals, and trained to be around children with people with ocd? You see the distorted logic that ocd creates? They know these subs types because they have conducted research that has shown consistent patterns through all ocd subtypes. A thought or feeling comes up, regardless of the theme, and then a feeling or thought comes after. The thought gets stuck, and the person tries to get rid of it through rituals either mental or physical. The thoughts get stuck because the mind has learned the thought to be a threat, and so it continues to solve the “problem.” But the problem can’t be solved, and so the relief the person seeks is by doing rituals. But studies show that when a person does not give in to compulsions, the fear is not reinforced. They have also noticed that people have different themes and sub types depending on the things they focus and fear the most. Soocd usually happens to people who value and are attached to their sexuality identity. ROCD are people who tend to value the idea of having a great relationship and are afraid of being trapped and stuck in a relationship that isn’t the one they want. So all ocd people face the same problem, they are afraid of something and they are looking for certainty. And so there minds gets stuck because there is none
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Very well put.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
That totally makes sense and that's very well put. It's definitely me overthinking about the complexity of ocd. It's like how is this real??? Almost like it doesn't seem like it could be a real mental disorder. But obviously it is lol. And when i typed that, it was definitely a raving thought that was not rational whatsoever. I appreciate you typing all that!
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I relate to these thoughts, it’s awful
- Date posted
- 3y ago
i guess they know because the same tools (ERP for instance) can help with recovery and the nature of that recovery is: when people stop worrying about being x sexual orientation and the symptoms that led them to believe they might be lose their significance, the symptoms go away or are revealed to be normal behaviors for people not of x sexual orientation. you would assume that, when people accept that they may be x sexuality they would begin to exhibit more essential traits of that sexuality, but recovery from OCD works the opposite way.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
and i should be clear what i mean by “essential traits.” i mean the symptoms of attraction, e.g. groinal responses, and not stereotypical traits of individuals with that sexual orientation.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@CaptainKierkegaard Also, I don’t know what the data says on this, but it seems like people who have had SOOCD have had this experience. I could be wrong.
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- Date posted
- 19w ago
I've gotten diagnosed with OCD and I'm in therapy. But I'm worried that I don't have OCD/that I got misdiagnosed. And recently I'm worried that I've just gotten myself into a habit of thinking of dirty minded or just plain old terrible things after I see/hear certain things because I feel like I need to prove I have OCD or else I'm faking(sometimes this goes away). Or that I'm just mimicking symptoms of ocd to cope with real problems I may have and that im just really deep into denial. I don't know...I'm just so tired. I mean, what if I really am what I think I am and this is my brains only way of coping? I don't even really feel anything towards most of the thoughts anymore either I just know they go against my values and I don't want them. I don't know if that's because I'm so mentally exhausted, I just don't care, or that the thoughts are true and I'm comfortable with them.
- Date posted
- 14w ago
That’s kinda my question. All my thoughts feel so realistic and so now I doubt if they are ocd and if I just can’t make my mind up about something and I’m using ocd as an excuse or something idc I feel like this post is word vomit.
- Date posted
- 6w ago
Im a 21 year old female in a straight relationship with the best guy a girl could ever ask for. About 2 months ago, I went to get coffee with a friend and as I dropped her off, I got a “weird” vibe from her and the look she gave me which lead to the thought of “should I kiss her”….Ive never had a thought like that before and I never have ever wanted to kiss another girl. I have also never had a desire to be with another girl (sexually or romantically). Now though, I have had one other experience of being with a different friend going to get lunch and it felt weird. Ever since then I have been on google non stop with hundreds of different searches, questioning if im lying to myself of my boyfriend, wondering about my past relationships even though Ive only dated boys, been attracted to boys, crushed on boys, etc… boy crazy! Reading on other forums has been a big thing too or doing quizzes. I believe its SO-OCD but im so scared that what if its not. I am in therapy and actually had two weeks of not even thinking about it or googling it until yesterday. I dont know what to do.
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