- Date posted
- 3y ago
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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Wouldnt make sense for professionals make up soocd, because the treatment is to expose yourself to the situation and accept the possibility of the thought. That wouldn’t make a person more in denial. Also, gay people have soocd. So what would be the professionals main objective? To turn in the closet straight people into gay people and in the closet gay people into straight people ? Sounds like a weird and pointless treatment. Why would real pedophiles be trained to not be around children by the same professionals, and trained to be around children with people with ocd? You see the distorted logic that ocd creates? They know these subs types because they have conducted research that has shown consistent patterns through all ocd subtypes. A thought or feeling comes up, regardless of the theme, and then a feeling or thought comes after. The thought gets stuck, and the person tries to get rid of it through rituals either mental or physical. The thoughts get stuck because the mind has learned the thought to be a threat, and so it continues to solve the “problem.” But the problem can’t be solved, and so the relief the person seeks is by doing rituals. But studies show that when a person does not give in to compulsions, the fear is not reinforced. They have also noticed that people have different themes and sub types depending on the things they focus and fear the most. Soocd usually happens to people who value and are attached to their sexuality identity. ROCD are people who tend to value the idea of having a great relationship and are afraid of being trapped and stuck in a relationship that isn’t the one they want. So all ocd people face the same problem, they are afraid of something and they are looking for certainty. And so there minds gets stuck because there is none
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Very well put.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
That totally makes sense and that's very well put. It's definitely me overthinking about the complexity of ocd. It's like how is this real??? Almost like it doesn't seem like it could be a real mental disorder. But obviously it is lol. And when i typed that, it was definitely a raving thought that was not rational whatsoever. I appreciate you typing all that!
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I relate to these thoughts, it’s awful
- Date posted
- 3y ago
i guess they know because the same tools (ERP for instance) can help with recovery and the nature of that recovery is: when people stop worrying about being x sexual orientation and the symptoms that led them to believe they might be lose their significance, the symptoms go away or are revealed to be normal behaviors for people not of x sexual orientation. you would assume that, when people accept that they may be x sexuality they would begin to exhibit more essential traits of that sexuality, but recovery from OCD works the opposite way.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
and i should be clear what i mean by “essential traits.” i mean the symptoms of attraction, e.g. groinal responses, and not stereotypical traits of individuals with that sexual orientation.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@CaptainKierkegaard Also, I don’t know what the data says on this, but it seems like people who have had SOOCD have had this experience. I could be wrong.
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- Date posted
- 21w ago
That’s kinda my question. All my thoughts feel so realistic and so now I doubt if they are ocd and if I just can’t make my mind up about something and I’m using ocd as an excuse or something idc I feel like this post is word vomit.
- Date posted
- 15w ago
Sometimes I think " do I like kids?" "Would i get aroused if I saw content with kids?""What if I'm a pedo and cant accept it?" "What if I'm ok with these thoughts?" "What if I'm not distressed enough " "What if I enjoy these thoughts?" , i avoid kids as much as i can, i cant look at them bc I'm scared I'm gonna have some groin like response. I keep testing if I'd get turned on or if I'd have some groinal response to sexual scenarios with kids. Sometimes I think that if I took my life this would be over and i wouldn't have to think about this and i wish i doubted something else instead of things like this. I had similar situations just with different topics such as if i loved or found sexually appealing a guy while in a relationship and i kept asking myself those questions for months and i avoided going to school for weeks and when I went I'd cry and have anxiety attacks. I had it with past actions i obessed over and felt the need to exploit every detail and be honest because otherwise i was being a fraud. I had it for sexual things that happened when i was a child. Im not diagnosed with ocd but should i tell this to my local counselor? Can someone help? Give me advice or tell me anything?
- Date posted
- 13w ago
I’m 25 and never ever thought this before my soocd relapse. I have a bf of 5 years. Never been a high libido kinda girl. Don’t get me wrong I do get turned on by my bf but not like every day you know? - That had always been in the back of my head, is this normal and ok? But my ocd has latched onto the most scariest what if EVER. My brain is now saying How do you know you won’t prefer to sleep and kiss girls if you haven’t tried it: and it’s that unknown that is scaring the shit out of me. I DONT AND NEVER HAVE wanted to sleep / kiss a girl. But now my intrusive thoughts is all I think about!!! I don’t want I don’t want I don’t want??? So why does my brain think BUT WHAT IF??? I know ocd thrives off uncertainty which is why I think this is happening? But I don’t wanna find out or work it out because all I want is to be with my bf and marry him!! Is this just the epitome of OCD?
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