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Many of my members do them at anytime! School, yup! donut shop, done! Exposures with response prevention is meant to be done through out your life whenever things come up. Having said that, at first while practicing the skill of ERP, many people find it necessary to practice in a way they can focus on the learning enough to gain the skill. once it feels you have it down, ideal is to do it whenever and wherever 😁
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I like to think of erp in two ways: “formal erp” where you might sit down and a purposely expose yourself by, for example, writing an imaginal (worst case scenario) script. And there are what I call “lifestyle erp” where you might continue on with your mall trip even though you might harm someone (for example). I always say - the best erp you can do is to live your life despite your fears. Intrusive thoughts are like background music. The goal is to allow the music to play while you continue on with your day. You don’t want to stop your day to try to change / stop the song. I hope this helps!
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Great question and great responses. In general, an exposure entails confronting whatever makes you anxious, without mentally or physically disengaging. As stated by other therapists, this could be something you purposefully seek out or just encounter. Basically, as long as you are confronting your anxiety (either a physical stimulus or even a thought that comes into your head), and "staying" with the anxiety until your anxiety comes down by half or more, you are doing the basics of exposures.
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Thank you, all of these comments have been so great to hear these days ( I kinda relapsed ), I’m currently dealing with ROCD and guilt and the urge to confess things that might felt wrong towards my partner. Not giving on the confessions is hard but your support really make people’s day better.
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What ERP or other techniques do you use to combat fear of cancelation? Especially curious about those with taboo thoughts, false memory ocd and event ocd based off of real events where the fear of cancellation may actually hold some validity. I once did my own ERP not under a therapist but just on my own I decided to create an anonymous account on Twitter and defend a friend who was receiving online criticism. I knew that this would be semi-controversial so I was expecting backlash and when I recieved troll replies it actually seemed to be a really helpful low-stakes exposure activity. Is this something that others have done? Low stakes online posts etc. that you know will recieve negative responses? I have had severe OCD as a kid as pretty much every subtype under the sun, and as an adult I pretty much have all the types under control except for this real event and false memory and taboo thought OCD. It seems like a different beast since it's somewhat realistic in the camcellation culture today, and it's confusing to address. Ive shut down almost all social accounts and it's keeping me from progressing in a career where I need to have an online presence :/
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Or thought-stopping, or suppression. I'm new-ish to OCD treatment and recovery, and I understand and believe that I'm living with this condition, but I still don't *get* it sometimes. I don't immediately click with what other people are describing. For example, when my therapist suggests using mindfulness techniques like naming something in my environment for each sense (something I see in this room, something I hear in this moment, etc), I'm thinking, "is this thought-stopping?" because I'm using the technique to get out of an obsessive spiral and redirecting my attention outward. Isn't that a good thing? Is it thought-suppression *every* time I try to change the subject in my mind? How would you describe "thought neutralizing" mental compulsions to someone who doesn't get it? (ie me lol)
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Curious.... the news has been terribly distressing for me and has stirred up OCD. Compulsive rumination and checking (news stories) are my go-to when OCD is triggered. Today, I purposely did not listen to my news podcast as I do every morning. I feel better-ish. Is this avoidance, or is this self care? Would continuing to listen to a podcast be exposure with response prevention applied to the compulsions that go with it? Thanks in advance!
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