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Good idea. I’m not here too often but many will know I relapsed last year with dreadful thoughts of either being the abuser or seeing people abuse my own children. I’m complicated as I have PTSD running through my OCD, which mainly comes in during sexual contact when I have a relapse. I either withdraw or get really sexually preoccupied and addicted. So POCD and sexual ocd were one facet of my mental condition and trauma. The thoughts I had were vivid, regular and reflected things I had experienced. Chronic stress triggered the relapse and the relapse was possible because of underlying trauma not adequately dealt with. Trying to do that now. But I saw all kinds of vivid abusive imagery, unnatural sex acts, and truly vile shit. Very hard for me to get my brain to not worry or hate itself for throwing this stuff up. I’ve been working on this since August/sept last year. It’s taking a long time to truly go, but it’s been under some control for some time. My heart goes out to anyone suffering this because it makes you feel like a pervert, a monster and not worthy of anything from anyone. But I’m worth much more, so much more. I will continue to work hard, and I will get OCD free. Totally ocd free. I will accept nothing less
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It's been very hard for me in recent times to accept my obsessions related to sexually intrusive content because it makes me feel so guilty for no reason. I keep having this constant paranoia that I have done something vile or completely inappropriate ...but I guess this is what the ocd is trying to do... Camouflaging itself and pretending that these things are really YOU, when the are definitely not
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I've been feeling better about it the past couple weeks or so
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I’m so ashamed to even talk about it. My OCD disgusts me so much and I just want to say I am so sorry over and over and over.
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very inspiring both of you! and remember, even if ocd doesn’t ALL go away, you can still manage it and recover to be the best person you can be!
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do you have a therapist who knows about ocd and can recognize it? @charm
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mhm. like 30 minutes ago i was fine and could dismiss the thoughts but then i *Trigger Warning* masturbated and had intrusive thoughts and now my brain is trying to tell me it wasn’t ocd and blah blah blah. ughhhhh
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I've had plenty of intrusive thoughts while masturbating
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i know, i just feel like i’ve triggered myself. like now the thoughts won’t stop and my body is “reacting” to everything when 45 minutes ago i was fine and at ease. any tips?
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It just gets easier when you get time pass
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thanks
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I see people make groups to deal with their OCD, should we make one for us
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honestly i’d like that, as long as we stay anonymous and all that. is there a way on this app that we could?
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Dont think so, but I was thinking a discord server
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that’s cool with me.
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I made one incase anyone is interested https://discord.gg/CdfDb6
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i’ll make an announcement
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@scorpio mcd no, therapy didn’t work for me, my therapist didn’t understand:(
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i’m sorry about that, maybe try and find one that specializes in ocd?
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Since I developed ocd as postpartum my ocd has mostly always targeted my kids. It started as harm and then switched to pocd. Both are equally very painful. For years I was mostly able to keep my ocd at bay but when it comes back it’s so bad. I have a son and a daughter and my ocd switches back and forth from kid to kid with horrible intrusive thoughts and now even intrusive ocd dreams. With each thought I get past and start to feel relief another one pops right up. The thoughts feel so real and true even though I know it’s just the ocd and not how I think or feel, the ocd always makes me doubt myself and question everything I think or do. I know other moms/dads go through this too. Please anyone who has or is going through this please tell me how you deal with this. 😪
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Has anyone experienced their reputation affected or misunderstood because of a societally taboo OCD theme? Others catching wind of your obsessions and misinterpreting it, assuming the worst? I’m intentionally keeping it vague because I don’t want my specific situation to get reassured, but it’s been a real tough pill to swallow knowing that people close to me (and anyone else they might talk to) think of me differently. I’m unwilling to share about my OCD because I feel pretty confident it will be taken as an excuse or denial, and feels compulsive and reassurance seeking. Let me know if anyone here has experienced anything like it, how they handled it, exposures you did.
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I look back at all past interactions with others and think “what if they were a minor” even though there is no particular reason to think that they were. Is that a common obsession with Pocd? Has anyone else had this intrusive thought? It’s so scary and exhausting.
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