This Pocd has really made me think deeply throughout my life, how actual pedophiles must feel. I have a lot more compassion for NON ACTING pedophiles. All these disgusting and worry some thoughts that I deem as disgusting, that I over think, well pedophiles must get loads and loads of thoughts about how gross people would think they are etc, I feel sorry for non acting pedophiles. I'm ganna do a video on my YouTube channel about what I think about pedophiles. Why I don't judge non acting pedophiles, and why I judge acting ones. Think it will make for an interesting video.

I think that we should have love and compassion for Everyone.

I’ve been researching this too, and I didn’t realise there we three categories, pedophilia, hebaphilia, and ep hebaphilia. The latter they say most men fall into.

I didn't even know where my own vagina was until I was 17, thought it was my pee hole ? glad I had my first sexual experience when I was late 17

Ha ha

I agree as long as everyone's voice is heard then all is well

Never heard of those names. I heard that you're not an actual pedophile if you like pubescent children or up, you're another name, but still illegal to act on it. But yeah I find it interesting cause I don't understand how actual non acting pedophiles know they are etc, I find documentaries on pedophiles interesting

Yeah that’s the two names, hebaphilia and ep hebaphilia. These are pubescent categories, which according to evolutionary psychology it’s perfectly normal to have an attraction to someone from around 11-80.

Spot on. Although this 16 figure in America would mean you are immoral. Anything under 18, which is what most of these people on here are sweating about his seen as paedophilic. Which is crazy, I’ve seen guys on here wanting to kill themselves because they found a 17 year old attractive.

Damn that's mental. I thought about having what I thought was sex, with a male teacher when I was 8 years old. I was just starting puberty. I'm glad the law is how it is tho because some pubescent kids aren't mentally grown up and would freak out at the sight of a penis. I know when I was 8 if I had of seen an actual penis, I would have had nightmares for ages and ages and would have felt scared to tell anyone lol. I think 16 and up is the right legal age, but I can see it going down as low as 13 at some point

In Germany it’s currently 14, Japan is 13 and Phillipines is 12. Across most of Europe it’s 13-15.

I was at my horniest at age 12, but I was so fucking Clueless, I'm still glad the law was down and I waited until I was 17 lol. I wouldn't want a kid of mine to lose it at 12 if I ever have kids. There's risks of pregnancy and stis which children are sometimes stupidly unaware of the high risks

And imagine an 80 year old fucking a 12 year old, that'd be really messed up, I'd kill someone if someone done that to my 12 year old cousin

And if a 12 year old got pregnant by a 52 year old man or something, their vaginas could split and they could lose their life giving birth that young

Yeah that would be gross.

Here’s a question what if a nineteen year old looked about 13-17. It was a tv show I saw where I fancied her but a guy started calling her a little girl. I thought that sounds a bit wrong and she does look a bit young anywhere between 13-17 but then I thought oh well she’s 19 who cares, I would. And I did find her attractive. My OCD is centred around this.

I think the law could be lower but only surrounding stuff like sexual contact, I use to really want to have fun with my male teachers throughout school, but I thought if I made a move they'd get put in prison if they accepted. Was a bit of a childhood fantasy but no way would my pretty much dry vagina manage actual sex at that age. And stis would be a lot more prominent unless it was just sexual contact permitted.

I think it's okay to find any age sexually attractive if they've started puberty and act flirty etc, a 12 ish year old kid came up to me a while ago, I was 19 and he was flirting with me, don't mean to blow my own trumpet but I'm quite a good looking person when I put my make up on etc, but because I didn't want people to think I was a pedophile, I basically told the poor little boy to bugger off.

He was saying things like can we be friends and can I hang around with you today and who are you meeting etc lol ugh this pocd

I had that when I was nineteen, it was weird, all of a sudden I became a magnet for 14-17 year olds. But when I was 14-17 these girls weren’t bothered about me at all. And I was good looking, ha.

Tell me about it, a bunch of 13 year olds sat beside me and my friends when we were drinking a few months back, telling us we're good looking and asking us personal questions etc. Never had that when I was their age

Was quite funny actually, they had this like 18 year old friend who drove this kids around, he looked utterly bored lol