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- MissLovely
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I think that we should have love and compassion for Everyone.
I’ve been researching this too, and I didn’t realise there we three categories, pedophilia, hebaphilia, and ep hebaphilia. The latter they say most men fall into.
I didn't even know where my own vagina was until I was 17, thought it was my pee hole ? glad I had my first sexual experience when I was late 17
Ha ha
I agree as long as everyone's voice is heard then all is well
Never heard of those names. I heard that you're not an actual pedophile if you like pubescent children or up, you're another name, but still illegal to act on it. But yeah I find it interesting cause I don't understand how actual non acting pedophiles know they are etc, I find documentaries on pedophiles interesting
Yeah that’s the two names, hebaphilia and ep hebaphilia. These are pubescent categories, which according to evolutionary psychology it’s perfectly normal to have an attraction to someone from around 11-80.
Spot on. Although this 16 figure in America would mean you are immoral. Anything under 18, which is what most of these people on here are sweating about his seen as paedophilic. Which is crazy, I’ve seen guys on here wanting to kill themselves because they found a 17 year old attractive.
Damn that's mental. I thought about having what I thought was sex, with a male teacher when I was 8 years old. I was just starting puberty. I'm glad the law is how it is tho because some pubescent kids aren't mentally grown up and would freak out at the sight of a penis. I know when I was 8 if I had of seen an actual penis, I would have had nightmares for ages and ages and would have felt scared to tell anyone lol. I think 16 and up is the right legal age, but I can see it going down as low as 13 at some point
In Germany it’s currently 14, Japan is 13 and Phillipines is 12. Across most of Europe it’s 13-15.
I was at my horniest at age 12, but I was so fucking Clueless, I'm still glad the law was down and I waited until I was 17 lol. I wouldn't want a kid of mine to lose it at 12 if I ever have kids. There's risks of pregnancy and stis which children are sometimes stupidly unaware of the high risks
And imagine an 80 year old fucking a 12 year old, that'd be really messed up, I'd kill someone if someone done that to my 12 year old cousin
And if a 12 year old got pregnant by a 52 year old man or something, their vaginas could split and they could lose their life giving birth that young
Yeah that would be gross.
Here’s a question what if a nineteen year old looked about 13-17. It was a tv show I saw where I fancied her but a guy started calling her a little girl. I thought that sounds a bit wrong and she does look a bit young anywhere between 13-17 but then I thought oh well she’s 19 who cares, I would. And I did find her attractive. My OCD is centred around this.
I think the law could be lower but only surrounding stuff like sexual contact, I use to really want to have fun with my male teachers throughout school, but I thought if I made a move they'd get put in prison if they accepted. Was a bit of a childhood fantasy but no way would my pretty much dry vagina manage actual sex at that age. And stis would be a lot more prominent unless it was just sexual contact permitted.
I think it's okay to find any age sexually attractive if they've started puberty and act flirty etc, a 12 ish year old kid came up to me a while ago, I was 19 and he was flirting with me, don't mean to blow my own trumpet but I'm quite a good looking person when I put my make up on etc, but because I didn't want people to think I was a pedophile, I basically told the poor little boy to bugger off.
He was saying things like can we be friends and can I hang around with you today and who are you meeting etc lol ugh this pocd
I had that when I was nineteen, it was weird, all of a sudden I became a magnet for 14-17 year olds. But when I was 14-17 these girls weren’t bothered about me at all. And I was good looking, ha.
Tell me about it, a bunch of 13 year olds sat beside me and my friends when we were drinking a few months back, telling us we're good looking and asking us personal questions etc. Never had that when I was their age
Was quite funny actually, they had this like 18 year old friend who drove this kids around, he looked utterly bored lol
Can POCD make you feel like you don’t know why sexually abusing children is wrong, just that you’re afraid of becoming a child abuser for whatever reason? I’m constantly struggling to figure out why pedophilia doesn’t make me disgusted or angry enough. I feel like I’m actually a pedophile who doesn’t know it yet or is in denial. I know I shouldn’t ruminate but I feel like there’s some truth to the thing I’m constantly obsessing over.
Having POCD is the most damaging thing to ever happen to me. Like even if I get better or even if I get cured, the compulsions will always haunt me. I've always wanted to be a famous person. And my naive ass still has that dream, but if I get famous, I really wanna talk seriously and raise awareness about how extreme OCD can get. The problem is, how do you explain all this shit to people who don't have OCD and also convince them that youre not a genuine freak. How do you explain that "oh some people with POCD willingly think of sexual scenarios to check for arousal" or "Some people with POCD masturbate to their thoughts to see if they can achieve an orgasm and some of them do by pure stress response" and also how am I going to explain that I've seen rare cases of people with POCD who try to find CP in order to see if it arouses them? How am I going to explain this to people without them being like "so where is the fucking line drawn? Just because none of yall have ever hurt a child means that we should trust you?" It's bad enough as is that just because that one dude with OCD comitted a heinous crime and already people are pulling out the "its his mentol ewness that made him do that" shlock but also the fact that I've read that in extreme cases some folks with HOCD test themselves out with same-sex partners. Like to a normal person saying all this shit basically looks like I'm trying to paint a paraphilic disorder as an anxiety disorder problem, but at the same time it is what it fucking is and I still haven't seen anyone with POCD hurt any child. Just because there are some bizarre cases of desperate and extremely anxious possibly teenagers doing dumb shit doesn't mean that POCD isn't or has never been a treatable anxiety problem. I talked about this with a friend and she was like "why would you have to talk about any of that when you can just keep quiet?" Because it makes me feel like a creep in disguise. Yes, compulsions have made me do gross things but at the end of the day it was all self-harm basically. It never had anything to do with doing harm to anyone but myself. Yes people with OCD have the choice to resist compulsions, but if you don't even know whether or not you have OCD and you're not working with a professional, most likely scenario is you're gonna give into a lot of compulsions. People don't choose their compulsions as OCD is highly-individualized and different for everyone. And there's no such thing as a compulsion where you hurt a child to test yourself. That is absolute bullshit. I'm upset, because there was a study by this dickhead that was like "people with HOCD regularly or excessively look at gay porn. If CP was accessible, no doubt that people with POCD would be seeking it out too." ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOT. Whoever wrote that can fucking choke. I'd rather die than see shit like that. FUCK OFF. These fucking mental health researchers are crazy sometimes like someone tried to test how high pedophiles and other paraphiliacs scored on the Y-BOCS test.....What the fuck was the reason for that? Can you do something more productive? I am upset with how horrible this disorder is and how much nobodys ever gonna get it. I want them to get it, because OCD is treatable and harmless, but people are too busy trying to milk their own perceived moral highground to try and take this seriously. It's bad enough that most of us can't be convinced that our OCD is actually real and is OCD and that we aren't being lied to by our therapists or whatever, but if the more severe cases of OCD get exposed to the general public we're gonna have them reinforcing that to us too. I feel completely hopeless and I honestly wish that the people who would raise their eyebrows at someone who has severe OCD, do something to make fictional CP illegal, instead of being willfully ignorant at already tormented people with a harmless mental disorder. Like I seriously can't even look at erotic fanart of a buff rugged adult fictional character without having the most disturbing shit pop up in the "recommended images" section AND THIS IS GOOGLE IMAGES like this isnt some nasty smut website I got on. If people really cared about the safety of children they would be doing everything BUT making people with POCD feel like menaces to society.
I want to feel more disgusted by pedophiles, before ocd I were, but now this is like I want to find some reasons to pedophiles, of why they act like that ???? Like wtf, I want to be disgusted like others people, and me before. Arghhh someone else threw this ?
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