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I think that we should have love and compassion for Everyone.
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I’ve been researching this too, and I didn’t realise there we three categories, pedophilia, hebaphilia, and ep hebaphilia. The latter they say most men fall into.
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I didn't even know where my own vagina was until I was 17, thought it was my pee hole ? glad I had my first sexual experience when I was late 17
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Ha ha
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I agree as long as everyone's voice is heard then all is well
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Never heard of those names. I heard that you're not an actual pedophile if you like pubescent children or up, you're another name, but still illegal to act on it. But yeah I find it interesting cause I don't understand how actual non acting pedophiles know they are etc, I find documentaries on pedophiles interesting
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Yeah that’s the two names, hebaphilia and ep hebaphilia. These are pubescent categories, which according to evolutionary psychology it’s perfectly normal to have an attraction to someone from around 11-80.
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Spot on. Although this 16 figure in America would mean you are immoral. Anything under 18, which is what most of these people on here are sweating about his seen as paedophilic. Which is crazy, I’ve seen guys on here wanting to kill themselves because they found a 17 year old attractive.
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Damn that's mental. I thought about having what I thought was sex, with a male teacher when I was 8 years old. I was just starting puberty. I'm glad the law is how it is tho because some pubescent kids aren't mentally grown up and would freak out at the sight of a penis. I know when I was 8 if I had of seen an actual penis, I would have had nightmares for ages and ages and would have felt scared to tell anyone lol. I think 16 and up is the right legal age, but I can see it going down as low as 13 at some point
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In Germany it’s currently 14, Japan is 13 and Phillipines is 12. Across most of Europe it’s 13-15.
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I was at my horniest at age 12, but I was so fucking Clueless, I'm still glad the law was down and I waited until I was 17 lol. I wouldn't want a kid of mine to lose it at 12 if I ever have kids. There's risks of pregnancy and stis which children are sometimes stupidly unaware of the high risks
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And imagine an 80 year old fucking a 12 year old, that'd be really messed up, I'd kill someone if someone done that to my 12 year old cousin
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And if a 12 year old got pregnant by a 52 year old man or something, their vaginas could split and they could lose their life giving birth that young
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Yeah that would be gross.
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Here’s a question what if a nineteen year old looked about 13-17. It was a tv show I saw where I fancied her but a guy started calling her a little girl. I thought that sounds a bit wrong and she does look a bit young anywhere between 13-17 but then I thought oh well she’s 19 who cares, I would. And I did find her attractive. My OCD is centred around this.
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I think the law could be lower but only surrounding stuff like sexual contact, I use to really want to have fun with my male teachers throughout school, but I thought if I made a move they'd get put in prison if they accepted. Was a bit of a childhood fantasy but no way would my pretty much dry vagina manage actual sex at that age. And stis would be a lot more prominent unless it was just sexual contact permitted.
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I think it's okay to find any age sexually attractive if they've started puberty and act flirty etc, a 12 ish year old kid came up to me a while ago, I was 19 and he was flirting with me, don't mean to blow my own trumpet but I'm quite a good looking person when I put my make up on etc, but because I didn't want people to think I was a pedophile, I basically told the poor little boy to bugger off.
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He was saying things like can we be friends and can I hang around with you today and who are you meeting etc lol ugh this pocd
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I had that when I was nineteen, it was weird, all of a sudden I became a magnet for 14-17 year olds. But when I was 14-17 these girls weren’t bothered about me at all. And I was good looking, ha.
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Tell me about it, a bunch of 13 year olds sat beside me and my friends when we were drinking a few months back, telling us we're good looking and asking us personal questions etc. Never had that when I was their age
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Was quite funny actually, they had this like 18 year old friend who drove this kids around, he looked utterly bored lol
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Hello, I've struggled with possible OCD but it didn't involved POCD at first, at first it was basically me denying that I was ever a victim of grooming/pedophilia and how I was the real abuser towards my abusers despite the fact that I was the child, they were the adult, how is that possible??. Then eventually in 2023, I saw a video based on a FNF modder exposing him as a groomer/pedophile, and it was because when he was 17 he allegedly had an interaction with someone who was 15 that was nsfw. Now keep in mind, I was a victim of grooming/pedophilia especially since age 11 and even at 17, however I was also a bit of a promiscuous teen due to years of being groomed and I was having nsfw discussions/heavily sex positive convos with people who were 15/16/17 at 17 and I never considered how that could be inappropriate and my intent wasn't to be predatory but the fact that I was just simply exploring my sexuality, also a lot of the people I was doing this with, we were apart of a discord server that heavily encouraged NSFW convos between Teens and adults and it was made by an adult so bad environment overall made by an actual predator. However it didn't stop me in 2023 thinking that I was a pedophile as a teenager and I was genuinely worried and thought that I was a terrible person and I still do. I only did what I did because I was being hurt and thought it was okay, I never meant to hurt anyone and I at 19 literally convinced myself that I was a pedo in my under 18 teen years because of the age gap between me and my friends {1/2 years} and we had conversations that were sexual based even though I at 19 was dating my BF who was 22/23 at the time, I was 19 having sexual convos with adults, I at 19 had friends that were minors and our conversations were always appropriate and never nsfw or those same friends that I had previous convos with that were nsfw, {they were all either 17/18/19 and I was 19} our conversation topics have switched to more SFW ones unlike the ones we had when we were all minors so how could I be a pedo? and I freaked out about it, I couldn't concentrate in classes at all, it was a genuine nightmare. Eventually I did get better and realized that my behaviors were under duress and how I'm not actually a bad person and how I've changed as an adult and do not wish to harm anyone however I'm back on my cycle of worrying again and I've communicated to the people who I thought I affected and they all express no ill will or any anger and were never uncomfortable, do not think about it or just don't care/simply forgot. But Guilt eats me up like a stray dog. I also sometimes see people on twitter calling 17 year olds dating 15 or 16 year olds pedophiles or calling them "P diddy"
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I’ve noticed that sometimes when people say things about killing MAPs or how they don’t deserve treatment I get a little. Well defensive isn’t the right word. I just get this feeling that if someone is getting treatment for their disorder and doesn’t want to hurt anyone they shouldn’t be killed or anything. I think it might be that part of my brain that is always questioning if I’m one and it’s scary to think about… I don’t know. I don’t think it’s something that should be like. Celebrated obviously. But there are some people who get treatment for it and don’t hurt anyone… maybe I just don’t like the idea of killing entire groups when there are other ways to deal with it too. I don’t know. I feel like there’s fighting going on in my brain because on one hand I think it’s disgusting and that anyone who acts on it SHOULD be punished and people who don’t think there’s something wrong with it SHOULD be ashamed, but on the other I guess I kind of feel for people who don’t want to hurt anyone and want to get help. It’s not the same as intrusive thoughts obviously bc there isn’t any fear accompanied with it for them, but they still get that it’s wrong… I dunno, maybe my heart’s just too soft for it’s own good. I feel a little better writing it all out though. When I started writing this I was part convinced this was some kind of evidence that I’m like them but I think it’s just a case of too much sympathy maybe. Whatever it is it doesn’t mean I’m anything like them. this is just a big old vent it seems. My fault for watching a YouTube video that I knew would trigger me :/ hopefully my thoughts came across somehow. Dog-earring this for next therapy appointment I guess
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TW Just saw a judge video where a girl was complaining about a mom suing her for money when her mom is her agent and gives her younger sister (at 17 years old) better work because they exploit her body and THEY SHOWED PICTURES. I saw it and was like “oh my gosh is that actually what I think it is?” Then after realizing it’s like I was too shocked to look away. What is bothersome is that I wasn’t immediately repulsed enough to turn it off and didn’t immediately do so and when the picture kept showing up it’s like I kept looking at it to make sure what I saw was actually what I saw. Also, the false memory is hitting hard because now I’m wondering if I had intrusive thoughts judging her body. Now I feel like a perv and pedo 😭 It’s like I’m anxious over not being anxious enough about the situation while actually being incredibly anxious. I don’t if that made ANY sense but someone please help. I will say my mind was already incredibly vulnerable because of burnout and other very stressful events recently. Still, I feel terrible and feel I deserve to be in jail.
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