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Hey dear, you are not alone and you don’t have to go alone trough this okey? We are all here to support each other! Don‘t feel bad about feeling like that, because you are HUMAN and that’s absolutely NORMAL! ✨ Hocd is pure hell, I think we all can agree with that. And do you know what? HOCD is an illness. An mental illness. And illnesses have symptoms and signs. And such thoughts are symptoms. What helps me is reminding myself: „these thoughts are okey, because they are part of my mental illness called OCD.“ Don‘t be hard with yourself. I know it’s not easy. But you DON‘T have to leave your boyfriend just because of some dumb HOCD thoughts. The way you write about him show pretty much how much you love him. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, remember that. I know you are a strong person, but feeling sometimes weak and bad is okey. You got this girl! ✋?❤️✨
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Hello ❤️ please understand that you aren’t alone in this and you never will be. I wish I could take your pain away and help you feel less lost , but sadly it’s a very complicated thing. OCD makes us believe things specifically because they don’t reflect our true selves- we feel afraid and repulsed by these thoughts and even more afraid that we like them. It wouldn’t be OCD if it didn’t feel real , and if we couldn’t look back and point to things that we take as signs confirming our fears , then it wouldn’t be OCD either. You mean a lot to the people here and myself , I wanna do everything I can to help you out !!! Try telling yourself that you’ll never have the answers to these questions , but live your life regardless of the fears. Think of them as bad , mean hearted people who want nothing more then to see you change your life around and stress because of them. Don’t let them have control over you , you may not believe it but you’re stronger than you think ❤️
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Honestly reading this made me very sad life fr it’s so bad for someone in a relationship to have rocd or hocd
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This is everything I’m going through except mine is tell me I’m a guy
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Thank you ! I really appreciate your comment!!! Makes me feel so much better knowing we aren’t alone
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I had almost all this thoughts during my relationship with my ex boyfriend but I didn't know it's ocd I just thought I'm a dumbass and I don't know what I want. But I got rid of these thoughts by thinking that I'm super lucky that I got someone who loves me and I talked about these thoughts with my mom and she told me that sometimes people have thoughts like that from stress and actually if you think about something it doesn't mean it's true. For example your friend can think she's fat but she's not .
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@advice ^^
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Or TOCD
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I have been doing okay for the past week or so and was really happy i felt that i was getting back on track, but today i went on tiktok and i saw something triggering which was “i thought i was a lesbian for 4 years until i met my now boyfriend” and it triggered me very badly, i have been crying all day and i can’t seem to make myself feel okay. i feel like im lying to myself that im not lesbian and i truly want men, but when i get any thought about men it feels disgusting and wrong and not me, i don’t want men i feel so sick i want to get out of this. i always felt so happy as a lesbian im so stuck i don’t want to be with a man. i have a loving girlfriend i just want to be happy with her.
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I’m like 90% sure I’m just bi, more romantically inclined to men, mainly my bf who I wanna marry. But now my brain is like “if you lean into liking women or keep circling and circling for answers you’ll lose all attraction to men and your bf. You’re practically already a lesbian” I feel so tense and anxious I will admit I am talking to chat gpt out of desperation I’m scared of losing all attraction to him I don’t wanna be thinking about women. I don’t unless I’m really stressed cuz when I’m stressed my ocd can take advantage of that I can usually ground myself when I’m in the city with him but I’m back home for most of the summer and I can’t be physically close to him which usually reminds me that hey this is real this is what I really want in life. Him But then I panic and question I haven’t been here in a while tbh. I’m worried I don’t feel enough. I don’t like magic Mike all that much, I like softer guys. But now the fact I don’t like/get turned on by random men on tv but do women in lingerie really stresses me out and makes me worry I’m truly a lesbian but I’m not. Once I started getting to know my bf and my ex bf’s I really did truly genuinely like them and wanted to make out and everything. Idk can anyone relate to the not liking big buff men All my brain is repeating rn is “when he dies you’ll be able to date a woman, when you break up you’ll only wanna date women” and it’s stressing me out. It’s making me nauseous. I was doing well for about a couple days after I initially left but being at home has been so incredibly draining This might give you a vision of how stressful home is: I’ve been on nexplanon for 7 months ish? Only had very minimal spotting during a stressful school period. Today: fully bleeding, like a usual period. I haven’t had my period since having it put in. I wanna go back to my bf so badly rn. I’m so worried I’m faking or don’t feel enough. I’m learning what a healthy relationship looks like and I’m terrified I’m gonna up and leave him when we’re older cuz I’ll finally figure out that I’m a lesbian or smthn. Idk. Someone pls just help me out a tad
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