Literally me right now : What if you can fall in love with a girl? What if you don’t feel in love with your boyfriend because you’re actually lesbian? What if you have to break up with him? What if you realize you are in love with your friend? Do you like her? Does your boyfriend look like a girl? Are you happy with him? Can you be happy with a girl instead? What if you’re meant to be with a girl? My stomach feels so sick and twisted I’m so sad honestly. He’s the best thing ever,and I never want to hurt him like I did before when I let my harm thoughts get to me. Now it’s me being lesbian? I really hate myself so damn much. All I ever wanted is to be calm and happy. I found some one great and then this all happens ? Why is my luck so bad. I’m sorry for ranting everyone.

Hey dear, you are not alone and you don’t have to go alone trough this okey? We are all here to support each other! Don‘t feel bad about feeling like that, because you are HUMAN and that’s absolutely NORMAL! ✨ Hocd is pure hell, I think we all can agree with that. And do you know what? HOCD is an illness. An mental illness. And illnesses have symptoms and signs. And such thoughts are symptoms. What helps me is reminding myself: „these thoughts are okey, because they are part of my mental illness called OCD.“ Don‘t be hard with yourself. I know it’s not easy. But you DON‘T have to leave your boyfriend just because of some dumb HOCD thoughts. The way you write about him show pretty much how much you love him. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, remember that. I know you are a strong person, but feeling sometimes weak and bad is okey. You got this girl! ✋?❤️✨

Hello ❤️ please understand that you aren’t alone in this and you never will be. I wish I could take your pain away and help you feel less lost , but sadly it’s a very complicated thing. OCD makes us believe things specifically because they don’t reflect our true selves- we feel afraid and repulsed by these thoughts and even more afraid that we like them. It wouldn’t be OCD if it didn’t feel real , and if we couldn’t look back and point to things that we take as signs confirming our fears , then it wouldn’t be OCD either. You mean a lot to the people here and myself , I wanna do everything I can to help you out !!! Try telling yourself that you’ll never have the answers to these questions , but live your life regardless of the fears. Think of them as bad , mean hearted people who want nothing more then to see you change your life around and stress because of them. Don’t let them have control over you , you may not believe it but you’re stronger than you think ❤️

Honestly reading this made me very sad life fr it’s so bad for someone in a relationship to have rocd or hocd

This is everything I’m going through except mine is tell me I’m a guy

Thank you ! I really appreciate your comment!!! Makes me feel so much better knowing we aren’t alone

I had almost all this thoughts during my relationship with my ex boyfriend but I didn't know it's ocd I just thought I'm a dumbass and I don't know what I want. But I got rid of these thoughts by thinking that I'm super lucky that I got someone who loves me and I talked about these thoughts with my mom and she told me that sometimes people have thoughts like that from stress and actually if you think about something it doesn't mean it's true. For example your friend can think she's fat but she's not .

@advice ^^

Or TOCD