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Taboo Thoughts During S*x
Does anyone else have taboo thoughts during, and right before you’re about to _____? How do you work on this so it stops happening?
Does anyone else have taboo thoughts during, and right before you’re about to _____? How do you work on this so it stops happening?
Very common, I’ve seen a few videos done by Sam on the OcdRecoveryUK page where he mentions this as a big reason for him struggling - maybe have a look for some of these videos? You sadly can’t stop thoughts so the best thing is just to continue like it didn’t happen and eventually your brain will stop being scary when you want peace
Oof I do have the same thing, it depends what works for each person cuz it's very hard to maneuver 😭 when I get It, we just take it very slow and push through even if it becomes uncomfortable at times. And do communicate with your partner!!
Last night I was self pleasuring. I didn’t set out to think about anything weird but as I was doing it some pocd thoughts were in my brain. I did not get off to them, but I could have. Idk why that is but it is. Idk what to do and idk why I am this way. Is there some science about the brain while aroused or is it possible that the more gross or taboo something is I can like it?? Idk, just want to know if anyone can relate.
I need advice for intrusive thoughts. I used to feel like I could handle them. They weren’t nearly as bad as the things that related to my actual life. But now, I’m suffering. I haven’t had a sexual experience in over a year that didn’t involve constant intrusive thoughts. Most are somehow related to kids and I keep chasing off the thoughts but it’s so bad. I know you’re supposed to ignore them but I don’t know how I can just ignore that and continue what I’m doing. But they’re coming on stronger. I had one earlier I could not get rid of just as things finished so the thought came on strongly just before my orgasm hit and now I feel absolutely disgusting. I hated the thought and I know it’s not me and it was not enjoyable but it still feels like I was getting off to it. I feel sick. I’m so fucking tired of these thoughts. They’re in my every day life too and it’s all the time. I just want it to stop but ignoring it feels so wrong. What should I do?
I see a lot of posts about mas**rba**on, or during the s€x that they appear. Before, I felt like an urge to do it, (masterba.) and I tested my thoughts like that, but then it seemed to me that I could actually have an orgasm on that and it scared me a lot... Has anyone had such an experience and do you know how it is possible?! Thank you
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