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- flowerpower4848
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- 35w ago
Taboo Thoughts During S*x
Does anyone else have taboo thoughts during, and right before you’re about to _____? How do you work on this so it stops happening?
Does anyone else have taboo thoughts during, and right before you’re about to _____? How do you work on this so it stops happening?
Very common, I’ve seen a few videos done by Sam on the OcdRecoveryUK page where he mentions this as a big reason for him struggling - maybe have a look for some of these videos? You sadly can’t stop thoughts so the best thing is just to continue like it didn’t happen and eventually your brain will stop being scary when you want peace
Oof I do have the same thing, it depends what works for each person cuz it's very hard to maneuver 😭 when I get It, we just take it very slow and push through even if it becomes uncomfortable at times. And do communicate with your partner!!
I need some help, my intrusive thoughts and counting compulsions have been very present during seggs with my boyfriend. Does anyone know how to deal with this?
Has anyone gone through this or is still going through this and can give any tips on how to make it stop? The intrusive thoughts during sexual activities are simply bothering me so much that I'm afraid to do anything like that because of the thoughts. I couldn't do it for weeks because I was always thinking about some atrocious thing, but yesterday I failed and now I'm feeling bad because even though I tried not to think, it's like I had an open folder in the back of my head and I blame myself for not being able to delete or block it. I'm afraid that avoiding it will become a compulsion and disrupt my sex life, but I also don't feel comfortable doing it often because of the thoughts. Does anyone identify? any tips to improve? I'm repressing myself because of this and I know it's not something that will do me any good. Sorry if this is inappropriate.
NSFW One of my compulsions is m-sturbation and I struggle with it here and there. Literally most of the time this compulsion is done is to get rid of groinal responses or the intrusive thoughts. but the compulsion itself is bad, and sometimes I think of really bad taboo thoughts and it gets me to finish but afterwards i feel very disgusted and shameful. i think these thoughts because i noticed they get me to finish way faster and im trying to look for a solution. i hate this so much because i know its wrong and i know it gives me temporary relief but thats the only “immediate” solution i guess. i feel like this makes me different. like something is ACTUALLY wrong with me. the taboo ranges from family, animals, trauma. how do i get out of this cycle. i feel disgusting and i feel as though this compulsion means im more likely to act this stuff out.
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