notrich
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- 1y
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Iām talking to this girl and I really like her but my ocd is telling me she is lying about her age (18)
ughhhhughhhh
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- 1y
That sucksš im assuming youāve asked her yourself? How did you met? are you going to college? (You donāt have to answer this im asking because if youāre both going to college then you both should be around college age and nothing to worry about)
notrichnotrich
- Date posted
- 1y
@ughhhh Nah we both are taking gap years. We met over the phone. and I did ask myself she said she graduated high school and said she is 18
ughhhhughhhh
- Date posted
- 1y
@notrich I see, im assuming your around the same age and this is like a long distance thing. I say trust her but also be cautious like any internet interaction should be. If youāve known each other for awhile maybe send selfies! Exchange social media if you trust each other enough to maybe calm yourself. Ik ocd goes after things/ppl we care about so i think this might be one of those situations.
777Q777Q
- Date posted
- 1y
If someone seems borderline legal age I feel it is good to go a extra step or two to make sure they are legal age to avoid any possible misunderstandings.
Cinnamoroll Cinnamoroll
- Date posted
- 1y
Do you know any of her friends? I met my partner on Discord (can you believe it!) and my OCD went full HAYWIRE. OCD had me convinced he was a killer, a kidnapper, a serial cheater, a catfish, you name it! What did help me fight these fears, however, was knowing his friends who could verify for his identity. Turns out he was just as lovely and amazing as the man I met online! āŗļø
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