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- notrich
- Date posted
- 43w ago
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I’m talking to this girl and I really like her but my ocd is telling me she is lying about her age (18)
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- ughhhhughhhh
- Date posted
- 43w ago
That sucks😭 im assuming you’ve asked her yourself? How did you met? are you going to college? (You don’t have to answer this im asking because if you’re both going to college then you both should be around college age and nothing to worry about)
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- notrichnotrich
- Date posted
- 43w ago
@ughhhh Nah we both are taking gap years. We met over the phone. and I did ask myself she said she graduated high school and said she is 18
- Username
- ughhhhughhhh
- Date posted
- 43w ago
@notrich I see, im assuming your around the same age and this is like a long distance thing. I say trust her but also be cautious like any internet interaction should be. If you’ve known each other for awhile maybe send selfies! Exchange social media if you trust each other enough to maybe calm yourself. Ik ocd goes after things/ppl we care about so i think this might be one of those situations.
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- 777Q777Q
- Date posted
- 43w ago
If someone seems borderline legal age I feel it is good to go a extra step or two to make sure they are legal age to avoid any possible misunderstandings.
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- Cinnamoroll Cinnamoroll
- Date posted
- 43w ago
Do you know any of her friends? I met my partner on Discord (can you believe it!) and my OCD went full HAYWIRE. OCD had me convinced he was a killer, a kidnapper, a serial cheater, a catfish, you name it! What did help me fight these fears, however, was knowing his friends who could verify for his identity. Turns out he was just as lovely and amazing as the man I met online! ☺️
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- ocdnoononi
- Date posted
- 42w ago
Fear my friends are lying..
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