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For me I resisted the urge to do compulsions at work - doing something just to make my boss happy, and checking with him to make sure what I was doing was okay. Very hard but I’m so proud of myself for not letting my brain/OCD dictate my choices!!! 💪🧠☺️☺️
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@Anonymous Happy for you!
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@Anonymous That is great. I’m proud of you because I understand how hard that is to achieve. 💪🏼
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Going to my highschool graduation yesterday even tho it was extremely hard due to severe panic attacks I get with huge crowds ! I did it!
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@jessica_c Congratulations on graduating baby!!!!!! I’m so proud of you!
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@Princess Lorita Thank you so much 🥹that means alot
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@jessica_c Of course darling!!!🩵💙💜
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Not doing any of my mental or physical compulsions and catching/stopping myself when I'm looking for reassurance.
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@Hydrangea0601 I hope I can do this one day. I live for reassurance and rarely get true reassurance from my marriage. It’s a tough pill to swallow! Congrats to you for doing so well.
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@MisTiffy You will get there with therapy. I was a scared sceptic at first, but ERP changed my life for the better. I wish you all the best in your healing journey.
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@Hydrangea0601 Yes! This one is so hard.
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I spent a few hours prioritizing in-person conversations with my friends instead of constantly checking the time!
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Joining this app and posting about my real event. I’ve been so terrified of sharing it.
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I drove by my late mother’s condo. Although I live in the same condo community that she did but since she died I avoid going by her place. I finally resisted the urge to avoid. It was hard, sad, and lonesome. My throat closed up and tears came to my eyes. But I was able to do it. And afterward, I felt empowered. Now I know I can face what I have been avoiding for four years. It feels good. I feel closer to her.
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@Hanzu I’m sorry for your loss and glad for your gain.
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@SarahEH Thank you SarahEH. ♥️
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I sat with an anxious thought for a few days without many anxiety attacks before being able to have an actual conversation about it that didn’t contain my usual reassurance seeking! Everything else has been a loss but at least I have that one win lol.
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@Anonymous243 Every win is a win! You’re going in the right direction. Keep it up! 💪🏼🏆
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@MisTiffy Thank you 😊🎉
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I held a knife and sat with the anxiety that I’d use it to take my own life and lose control. Just sat with it for a while and showed my brain how silly it is.
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@Yunus Ohhh that’s a hard one! So proud of you because I can’t even do that yet!!!!!
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@Princess Lorita Thanks so much!! It definitely created an anxiety response so I just focussed on letting it be there and nothing else. I really appreciate your kind words and I know you’ll get to that point as well :)
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I touched trash today and didn't feel like I had to wash my hands a bunch.
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I didn’t wash my hands after touching money and then picked my cup up to drink! I didn’t even wash my cup after because I didn’t want to throw my drink out. I was 10/10 distressed but after sitting with it I was able to move on to my next task!
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@Princess Lorita So awesome 🤩
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@jessica_c Thank you babe!!!
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I’m able to sit and enjoy alone time without constantly ruminating! Next just gotta try out in public
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This is great! When I first was able to sit and take back my alone time it was a giant deal changer for me personally. It lit a serious fire under me to get more things back. Wtg!
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@Will86 Thank you so much!!!
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Being able to recognize when I'm engaging in mental compulsions
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I have been trying to resist compulsions and reassurance by delaying them - I’m starting to realise how much I do it!
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Im trying to understand my intrusive thoughts are just that intrusive thoughts Not me, it's hard but finally I understand I'm not my intrusive thoughts and also stop doing compulsions
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Anxious feeling does not mean anything. Therefore, I can sit thru that and I don’t need to do a compulsion.
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I am noticing that I can sit with uncertainty much better…. With practice and erp. Also I have been using non engagement responses more frequently. I wish the best for everyone. Keep up the good work.
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Able to read the news/content that would trigger my ocd
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I decided to call a customer I landscape for after a few weeks of not working for him. I was afraid that he would be upset with me for not doing more work sooner, but I reached out anyway. My worry about him being upset was unfounded. He was really appreciative of my help.
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- OCD Conqueror
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- 1y
For clarification, my compulsion here was avoidance. If I felt like I had to call my customer for reassurance that he was happy, I would be able to recognize that and hold off. I'm glad to be more aware of my OCD and push back against the urges it gives me.
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- OCD Conqueror
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- 25w
I’m sure it’s been a rough few days for everyone, maybe even weeks or months. Hell, this last YEAR has been up and down for me! But I wanted to take this moment to congratulate everyone for coming this far. It’s no small feat! OCD is a killer, and it’s good at its job! The fact that all of you are still here fighting is a testament to how strong you are! We may not have the answers or explanation to everything, and that’s okay. We have to stay in the present, not the past or the future. Remember to practice being uncertain! It’s hard to remember the good days we’ve had despite all these horrible ones! There’s no scar to show for happiness, but we’ve got plenty to show for misery and pain. Keep hanging on, you’ve got this!
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- 20w
Can you guys share your small wins from the past few weeks!? Success stories? Tips and tricks that helped you when you needed it? I think we all need some encouragement and positivity!
- Real Events OCD
- Young adults with OCD
- "Pure" OCD
- Relationship OCD
- False Memory OCD
- OCD newbies
- Students with OCD
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- 4w
I’ve only posted here once and deleted the app for a while, and I still struggle daily with my OCD. In the past two years or so though, I have improved a significant amount despite oftentimes still finding it hard to feel the significance. One thing I have realized, is that unplugging from social media completely other than apps I can easier curate like substack and Youtube has helped tremendously, along with journaling. Keeping my screen time low and avoiding things like ChatGPT (which I had a big problem with for a while, that thing is a reassurance vacuum) has allowed me to better fight against my compulsions and/or Pure O. The one thing I’m lacking is a support system, but I am finally more comfortable with leaving my house and I’m taking steps to get myself back out into the world in hopes that I can get a job with adequate enough insurance to get proper treatment and maybe make some friends. I just wanted to vent I guess in a positive way, because I’m more prone to pessimism by nature. Don’t give up on yourselves, a small win is still a win. Reminding myself of that too.
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