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Hang in there. Things are really tough for me right now too. Sometimes I can’t work or I have to leave early and I just hate that. I get so frustrated and it’s really embarrassing when I have an anxiety attack and break down in front of people. Glad to hear you have some appointments set up. I just had a couple of appointments myself yesterday and I have intensive treatment coming up in a few weeks. This is so hard and debilitating...We have got to just stick it out and encourage each other when it all gets rough like this.
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Lovemymum, I’m proud of you for seeking treatment. If you are able to, it might be helpful for you to write down a list of the situations that trigger your harm OCD and possible exposures to do in that situation, and show the list to your team. That might help you guys come up with a treatment plan.
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Hi there! That’s a tough question but a really important one. Are you an inpatient or an outpatient? Who are your treatment providers, are there more than one of them (counselor/psychiatrist etc as you said)? What are your goals and what is motivating you to get better? If there’s an area of your life that your OCD is really preventing you from functioning in (work/school/social life/family life/etc) it might make sense to pick that as a goal and start thinking of actions you can take to get towards that goal.
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- 6y ago
Something I did while I was in treatment that really helped me was a personal values card sort by Miller, deBaca, Matthews, and Wilbourne. It helps you understand what’s important to you. If you can bring up what’s important to you to your treatment team, that might help you and them see eye to eye so you can create realistic goals that you will be willing to achieve.
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- 6y ago
In more technical terms, a treatment plan is often based off of a hierarchy of exposures (things that scare you) ranked from 1-10 or 1-100. You might want to start with the exposures that you encounter the most commonly or the ones that are the least triggering. If you have filled out hierarchies, obsessions, compulsions, triggers, etc in this app definitely show those to your treatment team.
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- 6y ago
EDMR therapy and exposure therapy
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Carly, was what I said above helpful? Or do you need more advice?
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I have harm OCD, and it’s often debilitating. It’s usually towards myself and those that I love. I currently have a psychologist and I’m seeing a doctor for the first time on November 14th
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I feel like my therapist knows my issues well enough by now, why haven’t we started erp or why hasn’t she given me any strategies to help when I’m triggered? I’ve had 4 sessions. She just says we have to stick to the method that she works by, but if I don’t know when we will start the work that actually helps me, how can I feel confident in sticking with the therapy? I am so unsure. I keep asking her but she never gives me an answer. It’s not too much to ask to know when the help will actually start is it?! If the next couple of sessions go by and we still haven’t talked about strategies or erp, I will get so anxious because I can only afford 12 sessions 😔 I don’t know what to do. People are saying to be patient and go with it, but I can’t trust it. I would have expected to start some sort of erp plan. If in the next couple of sessions we haven’t started it, what should I do? (I get really triggered by phrases like red flags or that doesn’t sound good in the comments, just objective advice would be so appreciated 🙏🏻)
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Hey friends, I hope you all are well. I just wanted to check in and ask people's experiences about being on medication. I have had OCD pretty much my whole life, just got recently diagnosed 4 months ago and my therapist recommended that I get on meds for it so I have a psychiatrist appointment set up. I'm a little apprehensive about getting on them, but I've realized that I do have some sort of chemical imbalance in my brain that plays a part in my OCD and anxiety. I would love to hear anyones experiences or words of encouragement. Thank you, I hope you all are well.
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So you got to ask me anything… Now I’d like to ask you something! I’ve heard from Members that they were so scared coming to their first ERP session. They were terrified that I would think they were crazy, that I would tell them their worst fears were true. That I would confirm they are some form of a terrible person or have them hauled off to prison for their thoughts. I’ve also had Members share how they’re very scared to begin ERP treatment because they’ve researched enough to know it means facing the fear, without the compulsions that have kept them feeling safe (but not really safe) this entire time. They struggled to see how they could be capable of doing this, while simultaneously acknowledging that they did not want to live like this anymore. If you have had your first session, what were your thoughts before? Did you have any hesitations or fears going into it? How did it turn out? If you haven’t yet begun to work with an ERP specialist, what is holding you back?
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