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- 6y
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- 6y
I would say ‘not to read into this’ but I’m going to because YOU NEED TO. You haven’t seen him in a while. Luckily, your immune system is protecting you from him at the moment. Also luckily, you guys are only connected by this lovely mode of communication that we call texting. Please please please. Take deep breath. Hold for 5 seconds. Let it out. Don’t go. Better yet, don’t even answer. For your own sake. It’s stressing you out and you don’t need it. You’re going to see him later anyway! When you do, just laugh it off and be really smooth about it. Say you got really busy. Say your cold turned out to be something way worse. Whatever it is. Just don’t feel like you have to meet up with him. Plus, he sounds like a major safety issue if we’re talking honestly. If you do decide to go, please bring someone with you. Best of luck <3
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- 6y
@ocdsucks awesome! I was looking for the random tag (i was sure there was one) but hadn’t saved it in my tags! I’ll do that now
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- 6y
He sounds like someone I know. I actually blocked him. You don’t owe any explanations to him if you don’t respond. He doesn’t need to know everything, even if he was your best friend. You don’t belong to him and if he’s making you uncomfortable then it’s not going to get any better. Trust me. I tried with this one guy, gave him couple of chances and the uncomfortableness did not ease away. I blocked him a few times and each time I respond back it got worse. He would want more. So if he’s texting you non stop everyday imagine after you guys hangout. He’ll be harassing you for the next meet up. He sounds like he’d be adding more problems for you. If you don’t have mutual friends then I say just block him. At the party try to stay with people so he can’t corner you and start asking you questions you don’t owe him to answer.
- Date posted
- 6y
Solid no from me. Tell him your flattered and you think you would both better off as friends.
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- 6y
A big fat no from me too!
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- 6y
Hey, sorry I don’t have an answer to your problem, but please feel free to share should share your non ocd related problems, questions, and accomplishments. We made a group called random to encourage people to do so.
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- 6y
@papaya Glad I’m not going crazy! I thought it sounded SO sketchy but I was like “oh maybe I’m being paranoid” hopefully if I keep ignoring him he’ll go away. Thanks ❤️❤️
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- 6y
Are we allowed to trust our instincts?
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- 6y
He sounds annoying. I would just block him. I get paranoid about people who act clingy
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- 25w
my ocd and anxiety has been so bad a couple of days… so i started liking this guy that i am friends with and we also went to prom together… after prom, i caught feelings for him even more because he’s so respectful and nice… but he is also a boy that acts like one… but overall he’s rlly sweet.. the other day though since we go to the same school we were in the parking lot after school with our friends just talking and socializing… but once he was leaving i went to go give him a hug and hugged me… my other guy friend was with us who’s also friends with him and hugged him too and whispered in his ear and said “yo u and sav would be a good couple” and he nodded saying “yes” (my guy friend told me that) so eventually i told him saying “yeah i like him” blah blah but there is a problem that bothers me so badly… my friend likes him… i didn’t tell her for a while until i think my OCD was just bothering me sm if i didn’t tell her so i told her how i felt and i was just saying like “i don’t want this to ruin our friendship or anything but i have feelings for him…” yada yada… she was like “i understand but if i’m honest with u if u ask him out i will be upset” i’m just like i wasn’t planning to rlly i can’t tell if he rlly likes me anyways but i didn’t say that… i said “i’m just telling u how i feel” and she goes “i mean i would see u guys anyways because u guys are closer” then she says “can i ask u something and a non rude way” and i was like sure…. she goes “since i’m the first person that liked him can i give it a try if it doesn’t work that’s that” and i was like girl idk it’s Gods plan if it doesn’t work it doesn’t if it does it does” and i’m saying that in the most mature and respectful way yk? because i am christian i’ve been praying about it also. so we were good after that but my anxiety and OCD has been so horrible… i’m uncomfortable around them because she flirts with him but i don’t and she did it on ft when i fell asleep on ft and my best friend was on there and had to hear it….she told me that he does it back she just can’t tell if he’s joking or not… but i’m so overwhelmed about it i’m having thoughts like “what if u and him stop being friends” … “what if something bad happens” …. “what if ur not confident in yourself enough where he won’t like you” …. “what if this is a love triangle” i’m just so sick of this and i don’t wanna be so distraught over a stupid boy because i’ve been through sm with my past talking stage thinking it will work but now im like rlly cauious over being in a relationship now…
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- 22w
This is probably not OCD but I have made a post about this guy. So long story short, last week I texted him asking how his day went with his mom and all that. So he then texts me “how was your day” and I said good and I said “yours” and he said “tough” “I’m going to bed ttyl “ I asked what happened and what’s wrong and never get a response. Next day at work he’s not talking to me so I thought to myself to just wait and give him space. Hours later I eventually ask him at work if he was okay and he said he’ll talk to me after work. Never does. Still never talks to me. The next day is Sunday and he still never texts me so I continue getting ready for church and ended up staying hom and telling him “I’m staying home this Sunday” “I’m proud of you for getting baptized” still no answer until finally Monday night or Tuesday morning he responds with “THX” I come in to work today and my cousin (manager) says he asked her if (the other manager) was going to church tomorrow she tells him “she said no” and then my cousin says “did you ask Bree?” (That’s my name) and he says “I really don’t want to talk to her right now”) he asks my cousin will she go to church with him. I keep overthinking “what in the world did I do” I’m trying to figure out what happened. I feel crazy for wondering what happened for him to all of sudden do this. I just like him as a friend but now I’m starting to dislike him period and have permanently deleted our messages and blocked him today. I took my time and thought hard before blocking and deleting. Maybe he’ll talk to me maybe not but we’re adults and I’m trying to figure out what i did because I’m really confused
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- 19w
From 2 months I realised I had OCD mix of alot of intrusive thoughts for the first time everything been so bad in my life since then but Thank god after taking medication it gone much better but after 2 months i have been struggling in my life in some way and i couldn't connect to the people around me because sometimes i become more anxious then I started playing a game consists of group of friends answering questions of different things movies quotes anyhting and i started to talk to them and after time i made group of friends and i was the leader 4 boys and 4 girls they were so funny and really respectful they matched my energy so well especially a boy there and after time i started falling for him more and getting attached to them more and if someone at home knows about this they will be so mad at me because I don't know them and it's wrong behavior to talk or play that lots of time with people you don't know But I can't stop talking to them they make me feel like all my intrusive thoughts calm down and the moment I feel like i need to leave them i feel stressed or anxious and my intrusive thoughts gets bigger I got so much attached to them and that boy and it Hurts and especially that boy seems like he likes someone from the team and I shouldn't have been attracted to him in the first place I feel so lost and idk what to do my OCD been severe these days I don't wanna cut them but I should cut them...!
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