- Username
- TabbyKitty
- Date posted
- 6y ago
I would say ‘not to read into this’ but I’m going to because YOU NEED TO. You haven’t seen him in a while. Luckily, your immune system is protecting you from him at the moment. Also luckily, you guys are only connected by this lovely mode of communication that we call texting. Please please please. Take deep breath. Hold for 5 seconds. Let it out. Don’t go. Better yet, don’t even answer. For your own sake. It’s stressing you out and you don’t need it. You’re going to see him later anyway! When you do, just laugh it off and be really smooth about it. Say you got really busy. Say your cold turned out to be something way worse. Whatever it is. Just don’t feel like you have to meet up with him. Plus, he sounds like a major safety issue if we’re talking honestly. If you do decide to go, please bring someone with you. Best of luck <3
@ocdsucks awesome! I was looking for the random tag (i was sure there was one) but hadn’t saved it in my tags! I’ll do that now
He sounds like someone I know. I actually blocked him. You don’t owe any explanations to him if you don’t respond. He doesn’t need to know everything, even if he was your best friend. You don’t belong to him and if he’s making you uncomfortable then it’s not going to get any better. Trust me. I tried with this one guy, gave him couple of chances and the uncomfortableness did not ease away. I blocked him a few times and each time I respond back it got worse. He would want more. So if he’s texting you non stop everyday imagine after you guys hangout. He’ll be harassing you for the next meet up. He sounds like he’d be adding more problems for you. If you don’t have mutual friends then I say just block him. At the party try to stay with people so he can’t corner you and start asking you questions you don’t owe him to answer.
Solid no from me. Tell him your flattered and you think you would both better off as friends.
A big fat no from me too!
Hey, sorry I don’t have an answer to your problem, but please feel free to share should share your non ocd related problems, questions, and accomplishments. We made a group called random to encourage people to do so.
@papaya Glad I’m not going crazy! I thought it sounded SO sketchy but I was like “oh maybe I’m being paranoid” hopefully if I keep ignoring him he’ll go away. Thanks ❤️❤️
Are we allowed to trust our instincts?
He sounds annoying. I would just block him. I get paranoid about people who act clingy
Hey guys, just wanted a bit of advice as I’m sure my friends are sick of me constantly asking them for reassurance and to be there for me. I use to be very close friends with this girl who had kids with a complete an utter nasty piece of work, anyway when they were together I was friendly with him as he was with my close friend and that’s only right, even though most people despised of him, I never see the bad in people. Then when they broke up he came to my home a few times to chat and for advice, which I gave him, he then tried it on with me sexually and I obviously declined in which he didn’t like, I then had the decency to tell me friend the mother of his children and it back fired on me for trying to be the good friend by telling her the truth, she then took his side in which I lost all respect for her as I was trying to do right by her for telling her what had happened as o hate things like that on my mind. After this he came to my house and threatened, send me a whole load of abusive threatening voice notes too like the vile human he is because of course he got found out. I drifted away from her because of the situation and clearly trying to do the right thing was the wrong thing, we have briefly spoke since this happened a few times within the last three or so months. This caused me to have severe ocd and have the worst paranoia, I don’t want her in my life, I don’t even have her number saved but today she turned up at my door unexpectedly just to ‘pop in’ although I don’t want anything to do with her, the whole situation makes me feel ill, makes my ocd bad and bad paranoia. What can I do?
Oh, for f**ks sake. So I had made a friend who recently confessed to me to have committed a sex offense, and my OCD is majorly freaking out about it. My anxiety and anger is screaming at me to get away from him or turn his face into a bloody pulp, but he has ADHD, thus impulse control issues, the offense happened when he was 14, his sister the victim (might have been dry), and he hasn’t made any advances. I just want an escape, but he has been a good friend so far. I’m practicing self defense just in case though. How do I calm my anxiety and stop thinking about this as obsessively as I have, for weeks on end now? But not be too careless.
Hey, just looking for some none-OCD advice, as at the moment I don’t really have anyone to talk to. I’m gonna try and keep it short, so I don’t bore you! So, I’m from England, and I’m 16. At 16 in the UK, you go from high school to 6th form, where you spend two years doing something called your ‘A levels’, and then you go to university at 18, like all countries. I’ve been in college for 8 months now, but I’d say 65-70% of my time has been spent online - so I’ve only had a relatively small amount of time to make true friends. I had solid friends throughout high school, and I say I tilt quite a lot towards being an extravert. Ever since coming to 6th form, a lot of the people who I was friends with, went to a different school, and some of the people who were acquaintances I barely see now, because the school is so large. Basically, since coming to college I only have 2 true friends, and one of those has basically separated herself from me (she’s a bit of a bitch, but that’s another story - we’ve basically been best friends since we were 4 but she routinely ditches me) I’ve found that no one ever messages me anymore. I’ve got plans to go to the city with me and 3 other girls next Sunday - but I organised it. They were all excited, but I’ve only been invited out once by one of my other friends. I just feel like no one likes me, and that I’m repulsive to people - I know it’s irrational, but the fear that I’m just unlikeable terrifies me, as I want nothing more than a big group of friends and that’s not what I have at the minute. I’m desperate for someone to be like “hey, Ellie do you wanna come and sit with us”, but they don’t. And I’m usually just sat with one of my close friends, who I love. She’s popular, and people like her more than me but she’s self-admittedly introverted and I’m not. Ugh, this is long now. But does anyone have any advice? I’ve made a lot of acquaintances, but they all have their own friendship groups from high school - but I don’t because a lot of my friends went to a different school. I’m miserable because of this at the moment, and I feel worthless.
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