- Username
- lovingyourselfwithocd
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Hi, for me it helped to do some mindfulness every day when I was still in therapy. I let the obsession come in my head and the challenge was to do nothing with it for minutes. Just accept there are here and don't think anything of it. Also when an obsession comes up or you want to do a compulsion don't go with it. It's seems really hard but you have to be very strong. I thought I couldn't do it but I could,so can you. Sometimes it will be easier than other times but you first have to try it. You can do it. I believe in you
“You have to be very strong”- so, so true. It feels like I am fighting someone 10x my size in those moments, but it gives me hope knowing someone has done it successfully. Thank you so much for your support ?
I think for me it was my beloved ones. People who, whitout knowing what I was going through pushed me and were there for me. It wasn't much of a choice actually. But then it hit me. I saw my days going to waste. I was just there sitting, panicking and crying every day. And even though I have learned to accept my feelings rather than trying to change them, I have also realized that LIVING is worth whatever risk ocd tries to threaten me with
Thank you so much- I think the living piece is huge for me. I know that my obsessions and ruminations keep me from living in the moment, and I hate knowing that I am wasting precious time. Thanks for sharing ?
For me, building on and recording my successes and brave moments empowers me. If I remind myself of times the work has paid off, I'm more likely to put in the effort again. Also, challenging all-or-nothing thinking. My "best" isn't always ? percent and that is ok.
I love that- recording times I have resisted the compulsions and everything has turned out okay. I think a journal would be helpful here. Appreciate you sharing ?
I’m so scared. My OCD is getting worse and worse and I’m just contributing to it by doing compulsions at every turn. It’s a vicious cycle. I don’t know if I’m going to be able to dig myself out of this hole. I’m terrified of living, but I’m not ready to die. But, I’m even more terrified to push through with treatment. I don’t believe I’m strong enough, at least not right now. And never mind how bad my depression plays into all of this. I’ve expended every resource of support: therapy, medication, family, friends, pastor. I know it’s down to me, but I can’t do this. I feel so sick and that my mind won’t be able to handle it. I keep reading how people with OCD get to the point where they’ve had enough or hit “rock bottom” so to speak and push through. I think I hit “rock bottom” but I feel weaker then ever. Anyone been here and gone through treatment and made it out the other end? How on earth did you do it?
Sometimes I have so much that I want to do (cleaning, exercise, hobbies, etc) but OCD makes it so hard to have energy...especially when I'm practicing not doing compulsions! Does anyone have any tips for making it easier to do everyday activities when you aren't feeling mentally great?
I’m looking for some encouragement. How many of you have actually gotten better with your OCD treatment? I feel like all I’m doing is switching from one theme to another and not actually going forward. The new themes are sometimes scarier because they’re “new” and there’s more uncertainty… at least with the old ones I knew how to respond and what that looked like for me.
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