- Username
- Soniclen
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I am so incredibly sorry that u had to endure such a horrible experience. Although u can’t see it now, ur experience will make u stronger. I know it feels like rn it’s making u crazy...but maybe ur MEANT to feel crazy rn...maybe ur meant to feel that so it pushes u so far to finally place a bad man (related or not) in jail. Because of ur intrusive thoughts another little boy or girl hopefully will NOT have to encounter the likes of ur perverse extended family. See the silver lining...have faith, and God bless u
I wish I could meet you all and give you a hug. I’ve needed this community so damn much. 465 - it seems I am now the one who needs your help
I know. I was fine and then got a bunch of images the last hour. Just gotta trust myself. Again though, we have to accept that we won’t have certainty that we COULD NOT develop such horrible interests. We won’t, we despise it. But we like to think of it as an impossibility for us. Doesn’t have to be for others, but it has to be for us. I am accepting I could be capable of continuing the cycle - but I won’t because I fucking loathe it. But some do. Under different circumstances I could be, and that’s scary
Thank you so much. I never thought of it like that. His abuse doesn’t bother me and hasn’t for years. It’s the intrusive thoughts that are recreations that bother me. Still thank you for your kind words. The bastard is going to remembered and reviled for what he has done
Wish u the best lots of love ❤️
You are doing the right thing. So courageous and noble. We support you 10000000% percent
U poor thing thanks so much for helping me and I wish I had the strength to help u please stay strong for ur beautiful family that piece of shit can go to hell!!
It really has been my pleasure. I’m still here to help you if you need it. I come here to offload but I do little rumination and no fucking googling? How are you feeling right now compared to how you we’re?
Not good tbh my dog died n I still feel so nervous around kids like im so scared I’m attracted to them n I hate my brain when it says I wish it wasn’t illegal so I can do it it will be good n ur not scared yes I fucking am n urges r the worst life is fucking hard
It’s all OCD this. Now due to my experience I am very cautious about who gets to sit with my older boy. I’ve read your posts, full of graphic detail, like you have an evil twin trying to ‘force your hand’. So maybe it will REALLY surprise you when I tell you that I would be happy for you to spend time with him. Alone. And yes I know you would think and see the most grotesque things happening. The content is grotesque. You are simply an extraordinarily caring soul who is suffering needlessly. I hope this brings you comfort.
What?
I mean I would trust you with my son despite your thoughts and fears. Even though I know your mind would tell you all sorts of things. The other point I was making was that in VERY cautious of who gets to spend time with him, so you should take comfort in that.
Oh thank u so much that means a lot
Oh sorry I understand now so much is going on my head
Yh
i hate this guilt!!! why do i have to have guilt!!! i hate p*dos! i think they’re evil and disgusting! my pocd is trying to convince me i am one of them and i should be dead or in jail😭i hate this so much, i have no desire to ever ever hurt a child, i think it’s the most evil thing you can do. so why is my brain trying to convince me i am that? why do i have to suffer every single day with intrusive thoughts and guilt when i know who i am inside, it’s just the random intrusive images and thoughts that are the problem :( the last few weeks have been extra difficult, i’ve been feeling just depressed and like i should end it all because of this guilt. i hate feeling like this.
I got into porn when I was around 14 or 15 I think and it just got very bad for a few years and I have a lot of guilt and worry for the things that I saw and touched myself to. I came across some bad things. I stopped all of that but I can’t get over the guilt from my teenage years. It bothers me all day long and disrupts my sleep now too. It leaks into my dreams. I just woke up from a dream related to that probably because I worry all day. Life is not enjoyable anymore all I do is worry in my head and say affirmations to try to make myself feel better. Right now I’m worried about so many things but specifically I’m worried what if someone I saw in a video was way younger? I remember being on xvideos as a teen and wanting to imagine myself with other people my age and I know I’m worried what if I watched something on there where the people were younger??? I think I remember putting teens in the search bar and it scares me because even though I was a teen myself I feel like that is wrong now and I’m worried about what I may have watched. I’m giving up on myself more everyday. I know I have zero attraction to minors and I know back then as a teenager I was not attracted to anyone anyone not around my age but I worry so much about things I watched and came across. I wish I had never watched porn as a teenager it has ruined my life and it haunts me every day. And also horrible fan fiction stories and other stories people wrote online that haunt me too. I’m worried I can’t ever recover or find help and I feel like I’m going to go to jail or end up k1lling myself one day because I can’t deal with it. I worry when I’m not crying or having too much anxiety I feel like I need to constantly be in distress and I am not allowed to enjoy anything or have anything. I don’t want anything anymore. I don’t want to do anything anymore accept just sit and worry and feel myself I hate myself. I feel ashamed to be around my family and anytime they do anything for me my brain goes “they don’t know they’re hugging a monster” “they don’t know they’re supporting a monster” and I just can’t take it. I want to find joy in life again. I would do anything just to be a normal person and not have had any of this happen and not have these worries. I feel like a mess every day I look so gross and I feel so gross and I feel like nobody can help me. I’m getting help soon but I just feel like it’s too late and like I’ve ruined myself and I just don’t feel good about the future. I feel like I am going to get sent away and that will hurt my family or end myself eventually and that would hurt them. I don’t want to hurt my family or anyone. I question how I could have ever been that person and what was wrong with me. I keep thinking back to things that happened before I was a teenager and I’m like does that count as trauma or something? Could this be why?? But also I don’t want to make excuses or feel like I’m pushing the blame onto someone else. I am the only one at fault. I’m sorry I keep writing these long posts I’m just not in a good place mentally. I feel like I am really sick in the head or something and I’m starting to fear maybe I have always been that way. I just want so desperately to be good. I don’t want anything other than to be a normal good healthy minded person and be here to support my family and others. I don’t care about myself succeeding in anything other than getting better, I just want to support my family in succeeding in whatever they want. I don’t want money or anything for myself. I have more than I deserve. I just want to get better. I pray but I don’t feel like I can be forgiven
Today has been awful thoughts. It’s just getting worse and it feels like real thoughts and feelings even though I’ve been fighting it. I wish I could explain how bad it is to my parents. How do you tell anyone you’re having horrible horrible thoughts of sexually harming others and other terrible things?And there’s events from my past that make me not want to do anything because I feel like I deserve to be jailed. I’m worried I won’t be able to get a job because I can’t act like a normal person, or learn to drive. My mom said I need something to keep my occupied, find some classes to take. And she’s right but I’m worried I can’t even focus on that and again I feel like it’s a waste because I feel like I deserve to be in jail. I’m 21 I feel like such a failure. I don’t know how to get help, I really feel like I don’t want to live anymore, it feel like the only way out. But I don’t want to hurt anyone and I don’t want my family to feel at fault. I don’t have any diagnosis so it just all feels too real. It’s CONSTANT thoughts about harming others. It feels real, it sounds proud and almost like it’s mocking in my head. I feel like I’m voluntarily thinking these things. I don’t understand why this has happened and why it’s gotten so bad. I know in my heart I have ZERO desire to be this person. I’m sorry I keep posting so much, it’s just so difficult.
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