Caree
- Date posted
- 4y
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 4y
Even if you see a guy who looks attractive..... it isn’t the same as what u feel or see in your boyfriend. Think about how humans react as a whole ..... we all look at attractive people, things , cars ...ect.....That’s what we all do. If that was not a part of being human , we would all have to wear BLINDERS ......it’s just a thought.....(that is normal for all humans ) usually theses thoughts just filter through as normal thoughts (which they are)...So, you are normal .......... Odc will catch a normal passing thought and throw it back , always in the worst possible scenario ..Recognize the operating system of ocd ....practice and learn .... OCD DESERVES NO CREDIT AND IT IS NOTHING.....YOU ARE EVERTHING .... no guilt for being human like everyone of us ....
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 4y
I’m sorry, just try to work it out......... but in a relationship you both need to focus on positive things ......please , keep working on your OCD ...... Fear = false evidence appearing real =FEAR
CareeCaree
- Date posted
- 4y
Thank you so much for commenting and helping!
bulldog580bulldog580
- Date posted
- 4y
dont do that. evey loyal GF is like this. looking at people is nothing
CareeCaree
- Date posted
- 4y
This is so true. I used to feel think what you said to other people when they would post about it but when it happened to me I felt like it was different and I confess so much I felt like I needed to confess. However, that’s true, usually it’s something that would just pass but my OCD is making me think it’s a serious problem that needs to be confessed to him
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 4y
So you know why it feels different ( because of your OCD ) .........soooo what if it is uncomfortable for a while .... it does not need to be confessed ....maybe write it down and throw it away, ....... but of all the things, people, everything communicated in the whole .... I would not listen to OCD ..... guaranteed 100% to lie to you ..... I know this is easier said than done ✅ but u can start now ..... There are a lot of attractive people in this world..... but your boyfriend is obviously not only attractive but a million other assets. Too .....
CareeCaree
- Date posted
- 4y
I ended up confessing and he’s so mad at me that I looked at someone else and now won’t talk to me. My fear was real.
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