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- ErickPham
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- 1y ago
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Like anyone becomes so sensitive about one subject/theme that you got anxiety just by hearing/seeing certain word/images. What should we do in situation like this?
Like anyone becomes so sensitive about one subject/theme that you got anxiety just by hearing/seeing certain word/images. What should we do in situation like this?
I've been writing the words & phrases on sticky notes and putting them all over my house. Every time I see one, I acknowledge it, read it (sometimes out loud), and use a non-engagement response / accept the feelings that come up. I say something like "yep, that could happen/be true". I started with some easier ones, have done it with some core fears, and am going to keep doing it with some of my harder themes. It didn't take long to habituate and need to change them up because they stopped eliciting anxiety.
I’m working with my therapist on this the main thing I was told was to take your thoughts to court, argue with them and rationalise it.
did he/she tell you how to win your case ?
@user18502 Is your therapist specialized in treating people with OCD? Because that approach does not sound like someone who treats people with OCD.
Yes, In that sort of situation I suggest sitting with the discomfort for a little while before engaging in any compulsion, the best thing to do would be to not do a compulsion, but I know how difficult that can be, so in my opinion try to disregard your initial anxiety. Remember that you are not alone, there are millions out there that struggle with ocd. I can relate to this sort of situation, I’ve struggled for years trying not to associate things with other things as if they were somehow connected ( they’re not ), ocd is just a tricky little monster that can make you feel anxiety about any silly thing that a “normal” person would disregard. The important thing here is to not stay fixated on your theme/s. You don’t have to distract yourself either, but choose to do something else that you like instead of focusing on ocd stuff. Things can get better for you mentally if you can differentiate yourself from ocd and choose yourself over ocd
it is so annoying, when i drive on the road, and seeing an advert just throw me off in a bad state. Or just scrolling anything on the internet give me the wrong vibe
The worse part i got magical thinking, and suddenly everything turn into, this is a sign, this has to mean something
Magical thinking OCD is definitely not cool.
When i see something, get reminded of something or talk to someone that triggers my train of thoughts, i feel a sudden racing spike in my heart, a knot in my stomach, kind of like that nervous butterfly feeling you get when you’re on a rollercoaster thats about to go downhill, or when you get jump-scared. My hands start to sweat and i just want to remove myself from the situation asap, wishing i felt the way i did about 2 minutes ago when i was doing just fine and wasn’t overthinking for once. The OCD goes wild in my head, instant overanalysis, sending me down into a spiral, making me want to dig a hole and hide in there until i somehow manage to persuade myself im not a bad person before I can go about with my day with ease again.
I don’t really wanna go into detail about what it’s about cause I feel like it’s super embarrassing, but there’s this one specific type of intrusive thought I get that I struggle extremely with ignoring/sitting in discomfort with. Does anyone have tips for managing something like this?
TRIGGER WARNING My friend basically said to me that someone who’s drunk could easily do something out of character and harm someone else?! That majorly triggered me as my ocd false memory involves me being drunk, so now I feel like it’s really possible. I’m not an angry drunk by any means but still. Ugh why do people have to say things to me. I feel so ashamed for getting drunk.
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