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Like anyone becomes so sensitive about one subject/theme that you got anxiety just by hearing/seeing certain word/images. What should we do in situation like this?
Like anyone becomes so sensitive about one subject/theme that you got anxiety just by hearing/seeing certain word/images. What should we do in situation like this?
I've been writing the words & phrases on sticky notes and putting them all over my house. Every time I see one, I acknowledge it, read it (sometimes out loud), and use a non-engagement response / accept the feelings that come up. I say something like "yep, that could happen/be true". I started with some easier ones, have done it with some core fears, and am going to keep doing it with some of my harder themes. It didn't take long to habituate and need to change them up because they stopped eliciting anxiety.
I’m working with my therapist on this the main thing I was told was to take your thoughts to court, argue with them and rationalise it.
did he/she tell you how to win your case ?
@user18502 Is your therapist specialized in treating people with OCD? Because that approach does not sound like someone who treats people with OCD.
Yes, In that sort of situation I suggest sitting with the discomfort for a little while before engaging in any compulsion, the best thing to do would be to not do a compulsion, but I know how difficult that can be, so in my opinion try to disregard your initial anxiety. Remember that you are not alone, there are millions out there that struggle with ocd. I can relate to this sort of situation, I’ve struggled for years trying not to associate things with other things as if they were somehow connected ( they’re not ), ocd is just a tricky little monster that can make you feel anxiety about any silly thing that a “normal” person would disregard. The important thing here is to not stay fixated on your theme/s. You don’t have to distract yourself either, but choose to do something else that you like instead of focusing on ocd stuff. Things can get better for you mentally if you can differentiate yourself from ocd and choose yourself over ocd
it is so annoying, when i drive on the road, and seeing an advert just throw me off in a bad state. Or just scrolling anything on the internet give me the wrong vibe
The worse part i got magical thinking, and suddenly everything turn into, this is a sign, this has to mean something
Magical thinking OCD is definitely not cool.
This is hard to admit, but I’ve been struggling with intrusive thoughts where the central theme is racism. I don’t use racial slurs but my brain worries that I have said something that hurts or offends someone and now I find myself analyzing every social interaction.
Does anyone else when they have the thoughts, they feel against it, but they still get arousal or tenglings sensations in the groinal area? Because this is what I experienced today and I feel like crap. This is going to be very triggering for a lot of you, but there are a lot of times that I notice things from kids. For example, there is a thirteen year old kid who looks very developed for her age, and I take notice of (and this already sounds creepy to me) her chest. Today with my thoughts, I imagined as if I were touching it, and although I usually "no no or "I don't want to do that", she is a kid, etc., I still get responses in my groinal area, and It felt very real. Even now, I feel as though I am faking it, even though I groan 😮💨 from it, and feel as though I am a fraud. Does anyone relate?
How long should I do ERP, so that my brain gets used to it, not to say tired?! I've been working for about three months, but everything still seems vivid in my head, there are even vulgar words in detail... since the sexual topic is both a groinal and a feeling that I want to touch myself. It's mostly related to faces and genitals, so how exactly can that go, if it's emphasized that sex pictures in themselves give that feeling, whoever is in them?
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