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I have trich the last 8 years. Sometimes is not so intensive (when i am surrounded with other people, or when I am working), but when I am alone at home i pull unconsciously from my scalp. Something that helped me is when the trigger strikes, I stop what I am doing and I focus on the urge to pull, telling myself "I am strong, I love my hair, I don't want to do any harm to them, I don't need to pull to feel better" and I take a deep breath. Is there something helpful that you are doing in order not to pull?
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I struggled with this for a long time, but I’m finally at a point where the urges only bother me if I have sever panic attacks, be kind to yourself, I wore my hair up for almost two years straight so I would stop pulling, I found it helped to put a lot of effort into taking care of my hair, like making hair masks and things like that, it helped me stop pulling my hair, and instead appreciate the work I put into loving my hair, if that makes sense
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Hi :) I’ve been experiencing this recently as well as dermatillomania for the first time in years (since I was little). Thanks for bringing this up! It’s so annoying; we try to relieve stress but the pulling and picking just causes more discomfort in the long run. I just got a magnet toy to keep my fingers busy, so hopefully that’ll help.
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Magnet toy seems like a great idea! I’ll look into that. 🙏🏻
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I dealt with dermatillomania for a year and it was one of the scariest things to ever happen to me. I picked at my scalp and I wouldn’t even realize I was doing it. I started cognitive behavioral therapy and it really helped!
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I have had dermatillomania for most of my life. I totally understand your struggle. Even though giving in to the compulsion feels good in the moment, it always causes me a lot of grief after, especially when it’s on my face. I was lucky enough several years back to go on the medication Luvox, which helped so immensely and allowed me to get a strong foothold in therapy with a therapist that was better equipped to deal with it. I still struggle, just not nearly as bad. I understand your fight though.
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Hii!!! I’m 13 been struggling since i was 9 i feel embarrassed too you are not alone ❤️
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I do struggle with picking at my face and skin and it’s a big compulsion of mine I struggle with
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I’ve been struggling with trich for the past 4 years. I have some small patches on my head from it, I usually switch when the bald spots get noticeable. I’m looking for the strength to stop myself when I notice what I’m doing, but it’s so difficult in the moment.
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