Speckles
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y
OCD self esteem
How do you improve on Self Esteem when you are disgusted with yourself because of your intrusive thoughts?!?!
Kaitlyn🌸Kaitlyn🌸
- Date posted
- 1y
Grace is a powerful word to me these days. Grace. It’s a really pretty word. And it’s really hard to give myself. But I’m trying.
Wolfram Wolfram
- Date posted
- 1y
What kind of things do you think others do to boost their self esteem?
SpecklesSpeckles
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y
Exercise, so something kind for someone, fix themselves up. Ok.. thanks Wolfram... my online therapist!!
megmckennamegmckenna
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y
I’m working on this as well so I completely understand how hard it is! But I try to remind myself that I am not choosing to have these thoughts, as they are intrusive thoughts, meaning they’re, unwanted and ego-dystonic (go against my values). I also tell myself that my ocd is just attacking what I care about most, which is why the thoughts are so disgusting to me. You are not your thoughts, so try to be gentle with yourself! You deserve to be kind to yourself, even if ocd doesn’t make you feel like it 🫶
hsahsa
- Date posted
- 1y
You can’t focus on improving your self esteem around a issue that’s still an obsession your trying to get temporary relief that your ocd is gonna Tear apart, you have to accept worst case scenrio and get comfortable with it, try writing it down on a piece of paper and letting your self feel the weight of it, it’s easier said then done but every obession eventually goes away with time if you properly confront it
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