- Date posted
- 6y
- Date posted
- 6y
Very common with OCD sufferers! I’m currently in recovery from it myself. Its taken a lot of trial and error for me to find strategies that really work. Depersonalisation is actually considered a type of Obsessive Compulsive Thinking, which is why we’re so prone to it. The most important thing is to not fear it, not fight it, and not suppress it. This was super hard for me! I have an ERP loop tape with phrases like “I love feeling tired, I love feeling foggy” etc. Which helped with the fear. Its also important to stop obsessively researching it, stop talking about how you feel all the time, etc. Its really just a form of extreme fatigue due to chronic anxiety (which OCD gives us a lot of) so just think of yourself as tired. Distraction is very important! Find things that are more important to you than how you feel. Find activities that engage you entirely. Gradually teach your brain that this isn’t important or dangerous, and it will fade. I sometimes go whole days without it now which is incredible compared to how I was a couple months ago. If you want some good resources, MaliaYoga and The Anxiety Ninja on youtube are the most helpful! I actually emailed the anxiety ninja a little while ago with an embarrassing stream of questions and he was very sweet and helpful. He has a course on depersonalisation but its not really necessary for recovery. Be patient, stay busy, find a way to not be afraid, and stop worrying about when it will go away, and you should be fine! This is one of the scariest obsessions I’ve ever faced so hang in there ❤️❤️ you’ll be okay
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- 6y
Omg Tabbykitty thanks so so much for all your thoughtful words and advice. So kindZ I will definitely try your suggestions and I never New it’s extreme fatigue. Wow so fascinating the mind right ? That is what I loved about people with OCD we are some of the most loving and caring people because of it! It can be annoying but I have accepted it as something I deal with ( and everyone deals with some battle ) and I wouldn’t change it I think it makes me more compassionate. Again thanks so so much super helpful and made me feel so much better :) ❤️❤️
- Date posted
- 6y
I never heard anyone else put it into words...while i’m sad you feel this way too i’m kind of happy i’m not alone and makes me feel less crazy.
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- 6y
Radke01 yes I am happy u feel not alone ! So many people with ocd feel this! My boyfriend and his brother do too! My therapist told me people with OCD have brains that are already naturally “high” ha so I guess we always feel kind of in a dreamlike / stoned state.. personally I think we are more in tune spiritually .. it makes sense we feel more and think more .. hmm food for thought!
- Date posted
- 6y
I feel this heavily :( I feel as if Im not the same person due to how my life had changed and theres no meaning and motivation so the thoughts I obsess over are an actual option for me. Ocd is really kickin me around right now because of this
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- Date posted
- 23w
Trigger Warning: Suicide I’m 21(Female) just for reference Anyone else struggling with OCD so much to where you feel so isolated, confused, burnout, suffering & in astonishing emotional pain & agony. I promise yall aren’t alone in the feelings. I promise you there is someone going through similar, obviously our lives aren’t identical, but our struggles can be very similar. It’s even harder dealing with trauma, split parents, abusive parent(s), a sick parent at the same time as all of this. It feels like God or the universe just WANTS you to struggle. Like it’s punishment for something you did as a kid or teenager. I’m dealing with all this exactly. Sometimes I just want support. So I hope this message can be support for someone struggling too & hope it helps them be able to breathe a little easier & gives them strength to go on another day. I just would like to mention if you have access to therapy take advantage of it. The therapists are not there to judge you but I promise it’s a them issue & you’re not a horrible person. When I used to think of suicide often I started to think less “doomsdayish” & realized that I wont know how my life will turn out if I just give up. If you give up you won’t ever know. Whether your situation will improve, & all the fear in your heart just gone. You could miss out on that freedom and happiness you’ve been waiting for in this current life we are living. One last thing I want to point out that I’ve thought about is that we don’t know how many more people are out there struggling with this. I think they’re maybe afraid of judgement. Basically what I’m implying is I feel like there are so many others out there who don’t want to speak up & are struggling with this. Everything on their conscious being afraid to even write it down. I just feel in my heart that there are others who keep these issues to themselves. I think I feel it in my heart because that was me once. Feeling like my story was different, afraid at thought of even telling a stranger(therapist) who could judge me. I did not want to be perceived badly. I’m 21 years old & wish I had the courage to speak up sooner I feel like I could’ve started seeing the light at the end of the tunnel sooner but that’s okay. Speak up for you, you do not have to wake up in fear everyday or contemplate suicide everyday. Even if it feels like you’re your only cheerleader. Sending a virtual hug to all because I know what it’s like to just want to be held & told that everything is going to work out. you never know what others are going through, be the person who isn’t afraid to extend your heart to others, try & breathe a little more, take care of yourselves, remember you aren’t alone no matter your situation, stay strong To the suicidal person reading this, you’re resilient & strong. Sending a virtual hug❤️.
- Date posted
- 14w
anybody else deal with this?😔
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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 11w
I recently got diagnosed with OCD back in May of this year. What started it was a month prior, I took an SSRI which triggered an extremely intense couple of days due to panic attacks I’ve never had before. I’ve never had panic attacks but pretty intense anxiety. That’s when I started experiencing DPDR and hyper awareness. I’m good some days, but other days it’s so so hard. Especially because I have no one around me that understands. The DPDR and awareness of every feeling, thought, and just overall awareness of my existence gets really overwhelming. I feel like I’m losing my mind. It’s really hard to sit with my thoughts especially when they’re on a constant loop of every little thing I’m thinking and doing and on top of that feeling like I’m in a dream. I desperately just want to go back to how I was 4 months ago, but I know that’s just not possible right now. If anyone has experienced this and is doing much better now or even currently experiencing this please let me know! I need someone to relate to lol
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