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- 5y ago
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- 5y ago
I am so sorry your going through this, maybe try doing this. It might be hard but let your thoughts pass by writing each thought down and think “is thought something I can change right now”? And if not go onto something you can and really try and let it pass and focus on things that really make you feel good and that you enjoy.
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- 5y ago
Over two-thirds of the world has herpes. So chances are you’ve already come in contact with it many times. I’m not saying there’s no risk, but there’s a high chance you either already have the virus for another experience or won’t get it from this one. Also, I dated someone with it for years and never got it. He didn’t take anything for it. https://www.who.int/news-room/detail/28-10-2015-globally-an-estimated-two-thirds-of-the-population-under-50-are-infected-with-herpes-simplex-virus-type-1
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- 5y ago
@pureolife Thank you so much for sharing your experience and knowledge! I appreciate it, this definitely provided me with some information to better tackle my Triggers. I am hoping that is the case for me! I have a grandparent with them, as well as several friends, and even teammates from school. Im hoping all is well. The girl herself tried to backtrack, saying that : “she never gave it to any boy friends” So I’m hoping the same goes for me! I have a really bad cold right now, so we will see. I’ve really appreciated all of the advice all of you have offered. Relenting my control and understanding the situation better has made me feel so much better! I just can’t believe someone would lie like that.
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- 5y ago
I understand that, and that’s scary ya know. But what’s so scary about having herpes ?
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- 5y ago
Well it can be quite unpleasant to deal with outbreaks, plus there’s a stigma attached to it. But I think for this person it’s also a huge trigger for contamination OCD. You don’t have to personally fear someone else’s OCD theme/triggers to understand how that likely makes them feel. Whatever your theme is, just imagine dealing with a big trigger for it.
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- 5y ago
@Jazmine_Leigh It is more so that it is a severe trigger for me. Especially since many rumors about self contamination are out there: essentially that if I touch my mouth, then later my genitals, I could get outbreaks there aswell. My OCD surrounds contamination, and this whole situation has opened a can of worms (or more so a can of all new triggers) for me.
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- 5y ago
I think it would really help since I don’t have the type of OCD you have. So I’m sorry if I’m not much help. But a ocd specialized therapist will help so much I just started seeing one.
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- 21w ago
This should be common sense, but unfortunately I stumble down these rabbit holes and subreddits because I have a complicated health problem, and am trying to seek a similar community. I have sought out medical advice with no real conclusion and ocd anxiety makes things worse so I guess this is a form of compulsion? I’m not exactly sure anymore. Anyways, I had a strange experience last night where I had a bit of swelling and discomfort in my mouth and fingers. I took an antihistamine just in case, and the issue resolved itself. I posted in a histamine intolerance subreddit asking if anyone has experienced similar as there was no known trigger. Well, someone told me it was anaphylaxis and that I had to be more careful with what I ate. Anaphylaxis is already a trigger of mine, and although I know logically it couldn’t have been, the opinion of another person feels like confirmation. I am now afraid to eat or drink because of it. I am unsure if posting on subreddits was a compulsion now but please be careful with anything like that. It can make things so much worse.
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- 17w ago
I’m new to this page and have been experiencing some thoughts which I think can be associated with health anxiety or OCD I recently participated in sexual intercourse with someone and I can’t get the thought out of my head that I contracted an STD The one night stand was about 7 weeks ago and it was “protected” however, I can’t shake the thought that I have and STD/HIV I’ve tested 4 times since the encounter and they’ve all come back negative however every time you read something on the internet it says you may have tested too soon! Now I find myself wondering if I have bad results. Also, I find myself wondering if every physical aliment I feel is related to an std that hasn’t shown yet. Has anyone experienced anything similar?
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- 14w ago
Hi, I’m new here!! I’m praying I don’t get judged for this. But, back in late May of 2022 ( literally right before I graduated high school), I added this one random girl from my school on Snapchat. She posted something about a graduation party , so I swiped up on her story basically saying how I can’t believe we’re almost graduated. She replied and we had a really short and simple conversation. The next day ( i believe) , we started talking a lot , and I just so happened to see her at the highschool when we were grabbing our graduation outfits and doing the rehearsal. When I saw her irl, I kinda got turned off ( I heard she was kinda crazy) , and on top of that , she was a little ugly irl. I remember seeing her Snapchat bio , and she was close friends with my female cousin ( a year younger than me) , who I happened to experiment sexually with when I was 10-11 years old. I remember going to work later that day and having sort of a lightbulb flick thought ( it wasn’t a good thought though) , what if my cousin told her about what happened when we were younger? So I started to kind of panic and immediately distanced myself from that girl. I also experimented sexually with one of my female friends when I was 10-11 , and from that day onwards, I’ve been pretty much living in paranoia and a little bit of guilt about someone finding out and my life being ruined . On top of that, It’s gotten worse to now sometimes I wonder if a girl I added off of quick add ( Snapchat) is underage even if they told me they were 18+ or had 18 and above in their bio, and I get so much guilt and anxiety about that. I even had a quick thought last February on what if I did something inappropriate with my younger cousin when I was 15-16 but I just can’t exactly remember when it happened , and it still eats me alive when I think about it, because I don’t know if it happened or not. I’m sorry for the long vent, I just wish I felt normal again. No matter how much I try to do things that old me used to do, life always feels “ off”. I always kept the top part about when I was younger a secret up until early (ish ) 2024, then I vented to one of my best friends and he told me that that’s a normal thing to do at a young age. Since then, I have told multiple friends and they all say they did similar stuff, but my brain just can’t accept that. Please help me, I quite literally overthink everything nowadays. 2021 was the last full year that I felt normal ( coincidentally, the best year of my life so far) . It’s not just about sexual related things either, sometimes I’ll wonder if I messed up something at work or hit a car while driving/hit someone and drove off. I just wanna live my life how I was supposed to live it after highschool ( carefree and happy) before whatever it is ( I think it’s ocd) hit me unexpectedly. Thanks to anyone who read this , I just needed to pour it out regardless of how negative I felt typing this, I hope someone can relate , because I feel so alone in my head at times.
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