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Did you have any intrusive thought that was such absurd that you can laught now about it even maybe it was really terrified for you in that moment?
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Did you have any intrusive thought that was such absurd that you can laught now about it even maybe it was really terrified for you in that moment?
Do you ever meet a guy that treats you so well and you fall in love with him but then all of a sudden you get hit with thoughts of self doubt on weather or not you do love him or even find him attractive? Iām going through this right now and these thoughts overtake my emotions and any time we do lovey dovey things my stomach drops and I get anxious when I canāt feel any lovey dovey emotions. It also makes me want to run away or makes me question that I donāt wanna be with him and itās stressful to deal with these thoughts daily. Anyone relate?
I recently had a panic attack and I was having intrusive thoughts during it that I might attack someone physically. Has anyone else had that combination of a panic attack and intrusive thoughts? What was it like for you? To me it was twice as bad as a normal intrusive thought.
Iām worried Iām an actual horrible person and using these as excusesā¦. I know nobody will understand this and will get confused but I canāt keep pretending everything is okay anymore:( Basically, for a long time, I would think āoh this is wrong, I shouldnāt do itā then a few months later I would be doing that thing? Like this was forever ago but I think about it, how did I not know things were bad when I thought that way? I mean I knew in reality I never actually knew what was okay and what wasnāt okay, and I only went off of what people told me, or the kind of people I was around 11-16 .. I regret these actions and I always end up crying, how did I not know??⦠I know I didnāt know but ⦠I donāt knowā¦
My boyfriend broke up with me 6 years ago and I thought I was over it by now, but this weekend I opened instagram and saw that he had gotten married. Safe to say I was shocked; I didnāt even know he was dating someone. And a whole floodgate of emotions have come along with it that I wasnāt expecting. Itās made a ton of doubts pop into my head like what if I never love anyone as much again? It was a very loving and deep relationship and I feel like I havenāt had a similar one since. What if he was my āsoulmateā and I screwed it up? What if Iāve messed up my lifeās trajectory? And also sadness and anger that heās moved on from me and has feelings towards someone else instead. I know itās just going to take time and acceptance but some support would be lovely ā¤ļø Anyone else been through this? Itās like im re-living the break-up all over.
Hey! I'm a lesbian and have been identifying as such for about 5 years now. I feel completely comfortable with that identity and it has become a huge part of how I see myself as a person. I'm still in the closet and hence lie all the time about my sexual orientation and it has gotten me wondering if I wasn't faking it all for attention. I've always been okay with my identity and suddenly I'm not sure about anything anymore. I get distressing thoughts about sexual intercourse with men and repeatedly check whether or not I am sexually attracted to them (on social medias, in the street...). Since I'm also on the ace spectrum, all the comments about "meeting the right person" are fueling my inner monologue because what if that person was a male after all? I feel like I'm losing my sense of self and it's terrifying because I genuinely can't tell whether I'm in denial or not š. Anyone going through something similar?
Sometimes I fear if I actually love my bf or I jjst love who he is to me. I love our friendship and I love spending time with him itās never draining the draining part is mostly my THOIGHTS Iād say but sometimes yk I think of how much he loves me and I donāt normally feel what he feels I think my honeymoon phase ended and heās still going and I know love is a choice and before my bf wasnāt who I expected on my head but I did grow to except that heās not perfect and thatās ok I can except that heās different doesnāt mean heās bad for me and sometimes I have other moments where I realize heās like someone whoās Iāve always wanted I do suffer from SOOCD and ROCD so idk if this is it I donāt want to break up with him bc I do enjoy having him in my life aside when Iām not anxious I love being around him has anyone ever thought this or felt this?
Anybody else with intrusive thoughts related to religion feel like they are coming from you. Does anybody else feel numb to your thoughts and like u just don't care. I'm scared that I committed the unforgivable sin, I feel lost and scared. I can't tell my thoughts from my intrusive thoughts anymore. I can't feel any emotions to my thoughts. I'm scared God has abandoned me. I'm scared he cut me off. I'm worried about my thoughts. I feel numb and emotionless and scared. I feel scared and confused like God has Left me or something. I try to cry and I do but I feel nothing in my heart. I ask God to forgive me and soften my heart to him but I feel nothing. I'm scared that I am going to hell and be eternally separated from God. If anybody has had similar experiences or thoughts pls comment or if u even see my post pls give me advice on what to do I'm really scared and emotionless. I'm scared. I love god and the holy Spirit but idk what to do.
Hello guys! I hope you are all doing well. Rn as Iām writing this I experience a lot of anxiety so I write this in hopes someone can give me some advice cuz I really need it. I think I should first address that Iām diagnosed with ocd and have experienced many themes throughout my life from contamination ocd to hocd to harm etc. at this period of my life Iām going through tocd and magical thinking ocd. When I first had tocd was 3 years ago and now going through it again I can definitely say it was ocd the first time. This time though.. it feels different. And these days specifically Iām going through literal hell. I was always this person who was like do what you love and donāt care about what others think, donāt stay in misery. And these phrases are now a big trigger of mine. And Iām like I canāt live like this. The urges to transition are so bad. Idk if I want this but you know my brain says I got to cuz thatās the real me. Then thoughts of coming out, the reaction of parents and friends, and everyone really is paralyzing. At the same time i feel like I like the thoughts and no matter how many compulsions I do I canāt feel better. Iāve talked to my mom about all this many months back and she was very supportive and not judgemental, which was very helpful for my mental health. So itās not like Iām afraid to talk to her itās just⦠I have this fear that might be magical thinking ocd but idk. Letās just say that when I had doubts and thinking about changing majors, my mom was the first one that I discussed it with. She tried to convince me to not change bc this career could offer me good money but guess what? I changed majors. So now Iām afraid that if I talk to her about this the same thing will happen and Iāll end up transitioning⦠I hope you see the connection. I just canāt live like this anymore. Iāve been going through this for the second time and it is going on for a year now. Itās so difficult. Iām actually expecting my period as well so everything is much more intense lol. Anyways, all Iām asking is some advice about this! Also, should I talk to my mom or not? Iām here to chat with whoever is going through the same thing! Thank you so much and sorry for this massive post!
I genuinely donāt know what to do anymore. I keep getting weird coincidences and I will sit through the uncertainty of them but it will just be one after another. Like I work at a summer camp and we were on the bus and I was listening to a song and thought like what if this song accidentally played out loud and people heard it and literally right after my coworker started singing it. Itās not a super popular song either. I have a theme like what if people are reading my mind or messing with me or whatever and it just felt like blatant. I also had a dream about a knife in csgo and the next day both of my friends get csgo knives, which is rare asf. Like it feels like I canāt trust people anymore. Idk what to do. Stuff also keeps happening right at 12:12. Like my friend texted me at 12:12 and literally the next day I text him on accident at 12:12. Then 3 days in a row my brother comes and talks to me out of nowhere at 12:12. Then at 12:12 I see āreal life Truman showā on YouTube . Like wtf. I also have a fear of schizophrenia so itās not a great mix. Thought I was making progress but this one is just absurd. wtf .
Is anyoneās anxiety and OCD worse while on their period? I was doing good this week but today I called out of work and am laying in bed feeling like shit with Pure/Harm/Suicidal OCD thoughts. Not to mention body aches, headache, and nausea.
Hi all. Iām still really struggling with harm themes towards my dog and I wondered if anyone else has had this happen. The images, thoughts, everything that I get - they all go against anything Iāve ever felt towards her. At all. But now, it feels like thatās my new normal - and my actual values, like loving her, not wanting to harm her, feel fake. I donāt know how else to explain it. It feels like I donāt care, donāt love her and wouldnāt be bothered by harming her yet I know thatās not true in anyway. But it scares the hell out of me. Like I walk around with it all day and have to remind myself why itās not something I would want to do, vs the other way around! It is the worst thing. Am I alone?
I recently had a bunch of life changes in the past 4 months: selling my home after a flood scare, moving to a new state, ending a year long romantic situationship with a coworker, finding a new job because I couldnāt stand interacting with them anymore (I start Monday), and then one of my best friends has pulled away immensely and I feel like our friendship is over. I also had a support system with two older women at work but I feel like I lost that now too because I left. I think because of all this I am having one of the worst OCD flare upās of my life. Iām typically very social and outgoing. But Iām in my new apartment and feel like I canāt leave my room, I donāt want to explore my new neighborhood, or do anything. I just feel paralyzed inside my brain. Either Iām ruminating about one of the above situations and convincing myself Iām a bad person who doesnāt deserve stability in life, and that my life is bound to be a cycle of always starting over and pain. Or I have horrible intrusive thoughts (I imagined trimming my catās whiskers and then accidentally cutting his head off with scissors). I feel really hopeless because I had taken leave from my previous job for 8 weeks and now start a new job Monday but Iām panicking Iām never going to be functioning well again and Iām bound to fail at this new job. I canāt stop crying because I just want my old life back, or at least my old self back where I felt like this was a small part of my life. Right now Iām consumed by my OCD. I tried ERP when I first moved and had a complete meltdown (crying non-stop, feeling hopeless) which resulted in me taking leave from work. At this point I was working remote because I moved to a new state vs working in office everyday but still struggled even digitally interacting with my coworker I had been involved with. Leave helped a lot and I was able to have some better days, interview and find a new job, but the impending start of the new job has snapped something in me. I also just am paranoid Iāve messed up my whole life by moving, or by finding a new job, or by ever being involved with a coworker that I just keep analyzing everything but feeling scared that my life is ruined. I keep imagining everyone at work talking about me being crazy or weak for not being able to work with my coworker but every time i had interacted with him it caused horrible OCD spirals of rumination and awful instructive thoughts. Iāve found when romantic things end for me I need complete separation in order to move on but I think my bosses are disappointed in me for not being able to push through. I also am so hurt because my best friend of 7 years had lived in the house I owned and was supportive originally about me selling it after a flood scare. But as time went on she got distant and cold. And I think she was resentful I was leaving and she needed to find a new place. She also tried to have her new boyfriendās family buy the house but unfortunately their offer wasnāt the highest one but I think she was mad I didnāt just take their offer. We had been friends for so long and i had always been there for her when things in her life fell apart. For me, I feel like this was the first major time I needed support past just a heart to heart but consistent support and I feel like she abandoned me. My other friends really stepped up and check in on me frequently and talk me through things but weāve barely spoken since Iāve moved and Iām so hurt. In the end I had to pack up all of our shared stuff and sort it without her because she refused to help. It was so hurtful because I was just already heartbroken, and feeling alone, and scared about my future for work. Idk I think I just need hope that things will get better because I feel really alone and scared rn
I have not once felt loved by my mom. Growing up she was always emotionally distant and would get mad at me so easily (and still does). She has threatened multiple times when I was younger that she would hit me (and has once even though she apologized) She yells at me for the dumbest things. Iām 25 and still live at home because I am a full time college student and I canāt afford to move out with the job I have. Sheās not my biological mother because she adopted me when I was born and took me away from my biological parents who I was told would be a bad situation to put me in and took me out of it. She is technically my aunt, my biological fatherās sister. My father apparently didnāt get along with her growing up and treated her badly. I never even met him after I was really little and he had visitation rights. He passed away in 2013 so I never really got to be around him or know him or vice versa. She talks bad about him and you can tell she hated my biological father but I feel like she carries that hate onto me also even though I have never done anything to her. Sheās even told me Iām like him when I have no idea how thatās possible if we didnāt have a relationship. She gets mad when Iām sick and if I even open up about how I feel about something she shuts me down and tells me that itās my fault. Sheās called me so many names that have torn me apart to the point I absolutely hate myself and didnāt even want to be around anymore. She scares me sometimes when she gets angry and I just donāt know what I ever done to make her hate me. Recently I ended up having Covid (for the second time) and she didnāt even care. She told me I was fine and that it was all in my head. I rarely can stick up for myself but when I told her she never believes me when Iām sick and needed to be more compassionate she said āf uā and ever since things have been worse. Growing up whenever I would achieve something she didnāt care. I was in orchestra growing up and during my concerts she would always be on her phone not paying attention and then afterwards didnāt say a thing when my grandma and dad would make comments. I donāt know if Iām overthinking this and I donāt know if any of it is considered wrong on her part or if Iām the problem. Before my dad (her husband and only father figure Iāve ever had) passed away, he made me promise to forgive her but I donāt think I can. I will always remember how hurt sheās made me feel. I have always felt hated by my mom. Now I feel like I hate her and I feel so much guilt for that. I wish I could get away but unfortunately I canāt. I donāt want to sound ungrateful. Itās a pain I would never wish on anyone. She posts on social media about peoples behavior but yet she acts that way in private and thatās what has triggered all of this because how can you post on social media about people acting that way or saying that what you say to people matters but yet you do that too. Iām sorry to vent like this but I have no one to go to. This is my only safe place š
Hello guys. I really need advice over here, my brain feels like it's in a fog. And I'm scared. I feel really angry and upset and indifferent towards God and it scares me. I feel faithless and concerned about if God is mad at me. I feel like I'm gonna lose control and rip my head off or gonna smash my head. I keep getting urges and uncontrollable thoughts and it feels all to real. I'm trying so hard to fight and pray, but I'm on edge I have no idea what's coming next. I'm scared that I don't even have OCD. I want to be sure I have OCD. My mind keeps saying I'm using OCD as a excuse for my thoughts. I feel angry on the inside and I'm scared what does this say about me. I'm really freaking out on a internal level. Any advice or anybody who went through this pls respond.
I was so confident that I was straight 3 weeks ago and now all of a sudden it feels like I have become a lesbian! That doesnāt make any sense š
Does anybody else get really tired, like I mean to the point we're you sometimes just don't care. I feel like that right now and it's scaring me. I don't have motivation to pray or do anything. I'm worried that all along it was me and it finally came out and now I'm done for. I still get anxious when I feel the thoughts coming but I just don't have motivation to fight them. Or to pray afterwards. Idk if any of y'all have this happen but I would love to know.
does anyone have any good tips for falling asleep and staying asleep that actually work. Not just staying off phone and that kind of thing before bed, iāve tried that and itās not helping. my sleep has already been bad but i think it was starting a new medication that has made it unbearable. iāve never been this sleep deprived in my life and iām not meant to take melatonin with the medication until i talk to a dr so does anyone have any non-medication/non-supplement tips?
I feel like for a while I havenāt really felt truly happy or very excited for anything. Every day feels like an uphill climb dealing with this OCD problem of mine and trying as hard as I can to solve it, seek advice, etc⦠It often feels hopeless for me and that I should just be discarded, like Iām too far gone and I canāt get rid of it. Anyway, the pint is I havenāt really felt happy enough to actually just be smiling in a long time. I canāt rember the last time I actually smiled because I didnāt think about it and just naturally smiled because I was happy. Feels like Iām at war with my head everyday. I feel numb. I feel like I canāt feel emotions strongly like I used to. I canāt feel strongly about something where Iām motivated to ACT on something, to DO something, to try something new or break a routine or even feel like I am taking a risk or having fun. Itās like I have forgotten what FUN is like. Actual fun, not trying to have fun, but having fun. As a side note, maybe itās too far fetched or not true but the medication I am on for my OCD (Sertraline, 25 mg dosage) , I am suspicious is making me numb like this. Sometimes I feel one if maybe this, small yet somewhat effective dosage of this medication is making me like this. I remember when I went off of it for a brief period last summer I could feel a lot more than I am feeling right now. But unfortunately my OCD was sooo bad as a result. So bad I couldnāt face it and I would be pretty much having a straight panic attack all day. So Iām not sure if coming off of that is the right move. After all I went back on it because wow I was having trouble dealing with myself. But like I said, that is just an afterthought. This is often how I trudge through the dayā¦
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